Is it normal for a girlfriend to look through her boyfriend phone

'Is It Normal For a Girlfriend to look through her Boyfrirend phone?

Yesterday I was with MY Boyfriend he went to do something so i was bored and looked through his phone and i notice I didn't like what i was seeing he text's other girls and talks to them like they his girlfriends I dont know what to do i want to tell him but he's going to get mad at me for looking through his phone.

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61% Normal
Based on 155 votes (95 yes)
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  • I think it's a yes and no thing. No because he's allowed to his privacy. Yes because you never really know what someone can be doing behind your back. I'm leading more towards the yes though. He will be mad that you looked at his phone because he said things that weren't appropriate to other girls. You have every right to be mad and I support you all the way on this.

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  • moomus

    If he has nothing to hide it shouldn't be a problem. My boyfriend can look thru my phone, emails, anything, and it's all good cuz I have nothing to hide from him and wouldn't get angry if he was curious or feeling a bit insecure and looked. If there was something to hide then I guess that person would be pissed with you looking

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    • Chunchita

      exactly, so if they ask dont get angry and dump them, that only makes then think they were right !

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  • Peaches101

    yes its normal to go through his phone! n yes you should bring it up with him. he shouldnt be doing what he is doing.

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  • You're his girl. What does he have to hide from you?

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  • FocoUS

    Um what's worse going through his phone or him cheating with other girls?

    If you don't want him to know about the phone you can be vague when you confront him. Like "I know about Cheryll"

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  • smallwondey89

    Seriously you shouldn't be doing this until or unless he gave any reason to you. i been through my boyfriend's facebook account once and all what happened is a big misunderstanding..!! he came all clean and i really feel bad now that i had even doubt on us..!!

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  • disthing

    Why don't you attach a tracking device to his jeans so you know where he is at all times? Or install a keylogger in his laptop so you know every letter he types?

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  • 41ph4m413

    It's only normal if your a nosy bitch. Get the fuck off his phone and mind your own goddamn business

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  • vbmg152

    No! Stop! My husband & I have been married 25 years! I've never been through his wallet, drawers, phone or anything! He's never gone through my things, won't touch my purse! We trust each other!! If you look hard enough for something, you'll find it!! That's your fault!

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    • Chunchita

      the point is you shouldn't be able to find something, no matter how hard you look.

      id rather know that his flirting or cheating even, than be the stupid girlfriend/wife that thinks she has the perfect guy next to her when really his laughing in your face.

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