Is it normal for a girl to think we are together after having sex?

At first she said it was "just sex" and "not a big deal" Now she's clingy and telling everyone that i'm her boyfriend. I plan on meeting up with her this weekend and go all out before I put an end to this nonsense.

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Based on 58 votes (43 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • BirdyMojo

    It's normal for a girl to think after 'doing it' that you two are 'together' but you shouldn't have sex with her again and then end it like that. That's just piggish.

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    • Oink oink. I told her from the get-go that I don't want a relationship (with her) so it's not like I was deceiving her.

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  • femmefatale12

    Be kind with her heart! Asshole.

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  • Lia

    Tell her you're not her boyfriend and DON'T have sex with her again or that'll just encourage her to think you're still "going out".

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    • This weekend, I told her I don't think we should be seeing each other if she thinks its going to lead to something more....and then she raped me.

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  • gregg

    You are obviously not old enough to know women at all. A woman who only wants sex is rare like a needle in a hay stack. If you do not care for her then don't have sex with her again, you cannot be that desperate to take advantage of someone who you know has feelings for you. Explain to her the best you can and move on.

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  • InsertBlankHere

    The act of sex releases chemicals in the brain that cause a person to feel the same feeling as "love."

    So yes, it's normal. Casual sex just doesn't work for most people, because it's nearly impossible to have it without some sort of attachment forming.

    It doesn't matter what you guys agree upon beforehand. Neuroscience says you're practically a couple.

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  • Ark

    first off sex is a very close act second for a woman it creates psychological changes in the brain chemical changes from evolution so she stays close to what could be the father of her child

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  • hokisgurl

    She's insecure and immature and has a need complex to please men and if u have sex with her she's going to want more. Women with this disorder tend to become pornstars. Strippers and prostitutes me I have this need for attention for a mans love like sex. I once did porn so it's what it is most women like us have been abused or sexually abused father abandoned them or no father figure or simply bipolar and other stuff it's all sphycological

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  • glomper

    Talk to her about it and say that you are just friends with benefits.

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    • Believe me, we've talked about it countless times. She says she agrees but then goes around telling everyone something different. Why would she do this?

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  • hokisgurl

    U can't rape the willing man

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  • 8Serene8

    Oh boy it sounds like you met up with one of the uber psycho women out there. I promise you not all of us are like that. But you will have her stalking you by the end of the month even if you tell her off.

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  • chaosdragoon1

    Sometimes they do that. And this may not end well for you, my friend. Lol.

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  • krisAllen

    It's normal for humans to get sucked into relationships with people we've seen naked, that's why FWB never works

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  • Xro18

    Well some chicks don't wanna have another partner some just wanna stick with one cause when u have sex it changes you when I had sex with my 1st we didn't want another we were just friends but as we got that close our feelings changed for each other well gl

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