Is it normal for a girl to fall in love with her best friends mom?

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So, I"m an 18 year old women and I have had this best friend named Sara for almost 10 years now. She's the best friend I've ever had and we're extremely close. However, the last few months, I've been dealing with an issue that's made it hard for me to look her in the eye. I've somehow fallen in love with her mom. It's strange because i'm not a lesbian and I've never had feelings for a women before until now. Her mom is 25 years older than me and she's definitely straight. She's so beautiful and I love everything about her from her physical looks to the person she is at her core. I don't know how this happened. I feel guilty every time I fantasize about her mom but I can't stop myself from doing it. I feel so impure and dirty and unworthy when I talk to her mom in person because all these fantasies keep swirling around in my head like a tornado and her mom has no idea. What's even weirder is that I once considered her mom to be like a second mom to me. It's almost borderline incest. I feel like a creep or a pervert. Is this normal for me to have these sexual and romantic feelings for her? I don't know what i'll do if I can't get rid of them.

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    I'm waiting on the sex tapes.

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    • bandgeek2014
      9 years ago

      well, as hot and as fun as it would be to make sex tapes with this woman, i respect her more than that so even if she actually wanted to date me i still wouldn't do that unless she wanted to. i like ur way of thinking though ;)

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  • SkullsNRoses
    9 years ago

    Sara's mom has got it going on! She's all I want and I've waited for so long!

    But seriously don't worry about this, people our age get weird crushes all the time, just look at the number of people on this site lusting after their teachers and step-siblings. It will fade away just give it some time :)

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    • bandgeek2014
      9 years ago

      ha ha what's funny is every time i hear that song, that's exactly how i sing alone with it :) and yeah, you're right. if anyone feels like they're love interest is strange they should read the posts on here because these posts could make any kind of relationship seem normal :)

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  • Numbertwo
    9 years ago

    Normal for lesbo

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  • deepthought33
    9 years ago

    You obviously care a great deal for her as a parent/friend figure and the sexual aspect snuck in to confuse you. I don't think it means that you have to let the sexual aspect get in the way. There is evidently much about her that you admire and even aspire to and maybe your brain is just having a hard time processing all that OUTSIDE of a sexual paradigm.
    Are you jealous of Sara in any way?
    How is your relationship to your own mother?

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    • bandgeek2014
      9 years ago

      I'm not really jealous of sara. I mean, we're so close that what's hers in mine and what's mine is hers so jealousy doesn't really factor in but my relationship with my own mom is pretty strained. we don't hate each other but we cant really relate to one another either.it's like we're just roommates. the mother daughter bond isn't really there anymore. I do care about sara's mom a lot. i could only hope to eventually become even just half of the women that she is.

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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago

    Why wouldn't it be normal? She is an unrelated adult to you.

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  • myspace84
    9 years ago

    *grabs popcorn* go on...

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    • bandgeek2014
      9 years ago

      Do you think this is entertaining? :) I don't know how it ends yet :) do you want to know more about it?

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  • orgasmio7
    8 years ago

    just ask this lovely woman if she'll let you French kiss her as you finger her clit.......

    ....if she says yes things will soon snowball!

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  • myspace84
    9 years ago

    Ye sure go on :)

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    • bandgeek2014
      9 years ago

      well if you want me to go on, here it is. I have sexual fantasies about her all the time and sometimes i have to masturbate to her picture just so i don't grab her and start making out with her or something. when she talks about the guy that she's trying to have a relationship with now, it makes me sick because i don't want to see her with anyone but me and when she talks about her ex-husbands, i get so mad at them for hurting her that i could beat the crap outta them and still feel like they haven't paid for what they've done to her. I know this may sound weird but when i'm at her house and me, Sara, her brother, and her mom are all eating dinner together, it makes me feel like that's the way it should be. like her and I should be married and that should be our happy little family. was that worth getting popcorn for? :)

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  • seekelp
    9 years ago

    "best friends"

    How many friends are we talking about here?

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    • bandgeek2014
      9 years ago

      oh sorry. we're just talking about one: sara.

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  • Harddude21
    9 years ago

    Yes it's normal because you have known her so long that you have grown really close

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  • myspace84
    9 years ago

    That's awesome...maybe talk to her and tell her how you feel...you never know right? :)

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    • bandgeek2014
      9 years ago

      This is true. I would never know if there could be anything between her and I unless I told her the truth because this is one of those situations where no one is gonna speak up and say how they feel until the other person says something first.

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