Is it normal for a girl to do all the work during sex?

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Its not always like it, occasionally we have great sex thats satisfying and fun. But most of the time he doesn't really seem interested in sex and it feels like he's almost forcing himself to offer something to me.

When this happens, there will be minimal foreplay, usually not even touching me between the legs and then he'll ask if I want to give him a blow job. Thats when he'll lay back while I bring him off, and if I want to feel him inside me I have to ride him while he lays there. Finally if I want to then orgasm I have to do it myself or go without.

Is this normal?

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Based on 17 votes (2 yes)
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  • LOUi_CUDi
    12 years ago

    he doesnt find you attractive no more... Well thats what a sounds like.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      I can't help feeling he doesn't find me attractive anymore, except that those odd occasions where he does make the effort are fantastic. And he never has a problem getting a hard on once he's made up his mind to offer some sexual activity.

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      • LOUi_CUDi
        12 years ago

        Well i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel.

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    • pixie_dust
      12 years ago

      what a rude thing to say!! are u trying to make her feel shittier than she already does?? I think that the dude more than likely has issues. that's happened ro me, where the guy had emotional baggage that caused similar circumstances. i'd say find a nicer guy.

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      • LOUi_CUDi
        12 years ago

        how am i being rude. im not trying to make her feel "shittier".

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        • pixie_dust
          12 years ago

          u told her it was bcuz he's not physically attracted to her anymore. that could be enough for some girls to cause issues with self esteem, or an obsession with her weight. that's a worst case scenario, but at the least it'll make her feel unaytractive to other men, and in general, and very possibly make it harder to ditch him bcuz she might tink no other man will want someone unattractive either. this is a common affliction with young women, believe it or not.

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  • honeybeee
    12 years ago

    wtf why u puttin up with this girl! go find a real man!

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    he's a lazy ass.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    That's totally selfish. It's not normal that you're doing everything to satisfy him and he won't even do anything for you. He should be putting your satisfaction before his own, atleast that's how I think.

    Final words, I'm sorry that he's like that with you. Maybe don't have sex with him for a while, get yourself one of those vibrators/dildos and show him the fun you can have without him. Maybe that will make him realise that he could be the one bringing you all that satisfaction.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Actually I have got a vibrator, it helps me ease some of the sexual frustration.

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