Is it normal for a girl to be obsessed with her bf

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i have been with my bf for 3 years. we lived together for a year. we use to be happy until he cheated on me. after that it all went down hill. i think he would want to be with me more if i wasnt so worried all the time that he will cheat. but once you cheat arent you suppose to reassure that it wont happen again. so i movede away and i find my self ringing him all the time. and if he doesnt answer i keep ringing. i feel so depressed.... get sick feelings tight chest on the urge of crying all the time. i know that if i could just give him space he might want to see me more often but i just get so scared he will move on so quickly. thats what friends tell you all the time, is the best way to move on is to be with someone else.i know whats right in my head but i cant stop my self from ringing and leaving msgs. and not nice msgs. i guess i just want him to send some thing nice back to make me feel better, make my worries slowly disappear. but its then when he starts to ignore me. i feel like he is over me and just feels bad about making me feel bad and that is another reason why i cant stop.what am i suppose to do? i know other people feel like this and people say time heals but really what are you suppose to do in the mean time. i was thinking anti depressants but do they actually work. make you feel happy?? i dont want him to move on

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    In my opinion if he cheated on you it's because he seriously does not care about you nor love you. People can change but mostly don't so he would probably cheat on you again. It's hard moving on when you love someone but tell yourself you can find someone who won't do that to you and not ignore you and just love you beyond anything. He's not worth your time nor anything you ever gave him. Good luck to you and leave the idiot cheat and have a lonely life.

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  • _Molotov_Cocktail_
    10 years ago

    IIN for a Russian to be obsessed with Molotov cocktails? Yes, yes it is. You are fine.

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  • JohnGalt
    13 years ago

    If the boyfriend is me.

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  • Mikael
    13 years ago

    awwww srry to hear about ur stuff bacally hes long gone gf aww i feel sad for u cuz ive oncce dated a girl jux like u when she loved her ex so much and i took the time to heal her by dating her and we went good but somehow her ex can back and caught her thinking about him and agin well shs only thinking alwase well we broke up because she was thinking to much well i was hurted too becuase i loved her well best is to let go and jux dont be wit him animore hes jux a waste of time hes long gone like for the next guy that u are going to date jux dont show him what ur ex did to u

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  • Elegy
    13 years ago

    anti depressants dont work first.Then he cheated on u cause u almost took his freedom but even after that if he understood he doesnt want to be with u anymore he should have said u.Do your best to foregt him.U cant blame him but the fact is that he is not with u anymore so stop calling or writing.Be proud.I know its hard but make u do that.

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