Is it normal for a girl to be heavier than her boyfriend?

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I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. I love him, but there's something that has always bothered my slightly about us as a couple. It's our weight. I've always had a thing for tall, thin, lanky boys. Well, my boyfriend's tall, and my boyfriend's extremly thin. He's 6ft 3 and weighs around 63 kilos (I think that's around 125-130lbs ?). I'm 5.7 and I weigh 70 kilos (I think that's 140-145 lbs). I have a 42 inch bust, 31 inch hips and a 28 inch waist. I am very proud of my figure, and i'm proud of my boyfriends. However, it does bother me that he is so much skinnier than I am. Sometimes I feel like a giant Amazonian woman next to him. It makes me feel un-feminine and un-sexy. Sometimes I wish that he'd work out. And then I feel guilty for feeling that way. He doesn't have this problem. He's fine with us, and he thinks i'm the most sexy creature in the world. If anyone should be working out I should, because i'm the one who has the problem with it. I am well aware of my own hypocracy, and yet I still can't help but think about how nice it would be for a pair of big muscular arms to wrap around my waist and throw me onto the bed.

Yes, it's okay and even normal for a girl to be heavier than the guy. 48
Nope. The guy should always be bigger. Make him workout. 2
Nope, the girl should always be smaller than the guy. Lost weight. 13
Dump the scrawny bastard for Fabio. 6
It doesn't matter as long as you're happy blah blah blah nonesense 32
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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Thought you liked tall thin lanky guys?

    Why do you want him to become more beefy then?

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  • orinoco
    12 years ago

    I'm 5.7 and I weigh 70 kilos. My gosh, Rubens would adore you.

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    • Femanoid
      12 years ago

      Hah, I like that. I've actually noted to myself that my body resembles that of certain baroque/renaissance models. But with bigger boobs. I mean giant.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    This is totally a pet peeve of mine and I see where you're coming from but for me, it's more bothersome when there's a skinny or fit dude with a cow gf. Your situation isn't that bad. You're at a healthy weight. I'm 5'4" and 120 lbs but the really scrawny guys just aren't attractive to me. My bf is about 6 feet and 200 lbs but it's all muscle. Let me tell you, there's nothing like ripped arms around you. But because he's so fit, I've started to work out to kind of match that. I dk..maybe I have the problem...not you.

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    • Femanoid
      12 years ago

      Sounds like you guys are a ridiculously attractive couple :P

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  • Femanoid
    12 years ago

    Hi RinTin, thanks for the comment.
    I'm not considering dumping him. I just added the 'dump him for fabio' option because I couldn't think of a 5th multiple choice and felt like a little comic relief.
    I am insecure about myself, but only around him. Onviously i've analysed my situation, so perhaps you should stop trying to find meaning behind my words and actually read what i'm saying. I promise you, i've kept no secrets.
    Also, he's my first boyfriend for a reason. I've been with many guys before, and i've had a lot of boys try to swoon me. One even proposed. They never lasted more than a week. THIS boy if my first boyfriend because he's the only guy i've felt anything for. I've never been emotionally attracted to anyone before him, and i've barely been physically attracted. I thought I was asexual :P

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  • RinTin
    12 years ago

    Regarding your other story it sounds like you're just insecure about yourself. You're thinking about dumping your boyfriend of 3 years who you said is perfect because of his appearance that you said you are naturally attracted to. I think you're trying to find reasons to justify breaking up with him. (Like the pimple) Also maybe this is because he's your first boyfriend?

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  • Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat
    12 years ago

    Another typical stupid female post. The guy loves her and though it isnt mentioned probably treats her very well, BUT they have to find something, ANYTHING, wrong with the relationship. Let me guess if he gets a blemish on his face, do you do a trial separation with him until it heals up? The make him workout choice is pretty funny, only because if you did press him on it, he is probably pussy enough to actually do it instead of telling you to go fuck yourself. When having sex make sure you are always on the bottom, wouldnt want to accidentally suffocate him with the extra weight you are carrying around, now would we?

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    • Femanoid
      12 years ago

      Funny, you've gone through such an effort to comment on the post, but it seems that you havn't actually READ the post. I stated quiet clearly that blemish's don't usually bother me. Infact, I made a point of stating he had serious pizza face when we started dating, and I wasn't the least bit phased. That's the whole point of bother; this particular event disturbed me, which is uncharateristic of the relationship. I shouldn't have to be re-explaining the entire story for idiots to understand. However, I would appreciate it if, in the future, virgins and the infamously dateless would avoid posting 'advice' in the relationship sector of the website. Somehow, I just don't see how the inner workings of a screwed up asshole are of any use to me.
      Thanks :D

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