Is it normal for a gf to act like this
I even don't know how to explain my gf's ways but it's driving me mad so I'll try .
I met her through my sister - they're best friends,I also share with another chick, just helps with the mortgage .
My gf and I have only just got things going as there was the sister thing plus she's 2hrs away and - she's kinda prickly by nature to so, it's taken time .
She's sort of got a feminist streak, had a very rough life and so she's very guarded- special but weird.
Her feminist side's always butting in , saying oh what about - my sister, or the housemate or she'll be dying to come over,stay ,all exited ,she prepares for it a lot, but then we're finally together, cuddle up or loves me spooning her, feeling around , talking.As I said it's been a very slow start but often right in the middle,finally , or even the beginning sometimes, she'll bring up the sister , or the housemate,with a bitchy tone, she knows it's only sharing.
Or she'll be on the phone one minute saying how much she's missing me,next asking for my sister , or the housemate including her, or how is she but with a tone as if we're married, she'll sound jealous or as if I'm screwing around with the housemate,the sister it's her look after the girls thing, I just can't get it. Usually right after we finally get together again or on the phone. Sometimes it'll be just asking more about them both but in different ways but others it'll be almost a jab in some way , a sort of them me thing. Never sure to be honest but it often just leaves me cold or kills the night and backing off or I've just gone to bed alone some nights . Like her stuff is so hard to explain but it's often like jabs or cracks in descise.
We might've waited 3 wks to see each other, yet finally in each others arms until it's like self sabotage.
Or one afternoon we were out side just messing around , we were really having a good time tho but the next she tells me she hates all men . I said what about me I'm male but you love hangin out with me, "yep all men" , they destroy families, wreck the world , abuse women- I'm like wtf !
I dunno, once again it ruined the day that's for sure and I'm scratching my head.
is it normal , lately I'm thinking whatever the hell her issues are , this just keeps happening ,as crazy as I am about her I just feel like dumping it.
Like another w/e it's been 3 wks , finally together, going to the beach , she couldn't wait but also insisted the sister came, then she was in a shit all the way there and there, no clue what I did if anything,somem to do with the sister tho , whom she insisted came. No fights on the way, she was just in a huff, totally tuined the day , after waiting 3 wks.
I mean will I be dealing with her head forever !