Is it normal for a gay guy to ask a straight girl to be his girlfriend

So yesterday I received a message from one of my best friends...well former best friend. It was a really long message basically him asking to be his girlfriend. The thing is he happens to be gay, he has told and my friends on numerous occasions that he doesn't like girls in that way, even though one of his longest relationships was with a girl. Anyway, he went on and on about how he thinks I'm beautiful, how wonderful I am and that guys are always telling him how they want to hook up with me. He said that usually when he meets a guy all they want is one thing and when they don't get it they look elsewhere. He said that if I was worried he would go gay on me that first he doesn't cheat and I would probably find a guy before he does. He said that we are at a point where we need attention so why not give each other that. However, he did end with if I happen to say no to his offer that he would be an insider for me and tell me which guys liked me, he said he owes that much at least.
I was so surprised by this, especially since we haven't talked in a week and I did take 24 hours to figure out what to say to that. I responded saying that he was one of my very best friends but I felt that he was lonely was looking for any kind of relationship. However, I told him that he will always have my attention a friend and that we can help each other find people to be with.

So this morning I sent him a text asking if he got my message he said yes I did and we are square. I was like square? and he said yeah boring, ordinary, etc. I asked him did he think we were ordinary? Here's where he did a complete 180, he was like he feels like he's the modim and has to make things painfully obvious just so he can feel comfortable and everyone looks at him like he's the weird one. But he said that he was upset that girls are just ordinary. So I got really upset and I responded that kind of said that in a nasty tone and that if you have a problem then just talk about with being bitchy. He totally went off on me, he said that I'm constantly bitchy towards him and that he takes my BS and all the while I want his dick (which I NEVER DID) and he finally took a chance on me and I sh*t on him. He told me that I need to go get my tubes tied so my hormones stop f**kin raging on everyone. A few hours later he sent me a message saying how much he disliked being my friend and basically just went on and on saying that I terrible friend to him. Doesn't matter how many times we went to the movies or ate dinner together and I always paid because he never had money and I never asked for a cent back. My question is "Is this normal behavior, not just for him but for anybody? Keep in mind that this all happened within 24 hours.

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25% Normal
Based on 68 votes (17 yes)
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Comments ( 17 )
  • BfingIToucher

    He is confused about who he is, seems to want to fit in and change his reputation, and reacted to your rejection with true hostility rather than with respect and maturity. He seems very self-centered; all this is more about him than you, clearly. Not an easy person to be around.

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  • Piconano

    My sister has a friend who's gay, and coincidentally, he acts exactly as how you described--One minute he's all "We're BFFs!" and the next he's all "Go to hell, b*tch." It's like words mean nothing to them...

    It'd say it's normal, though.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    That makes no sense at all. Unless he is hiding the fact that he is gay,

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  • epicbirdythe1

    Sorry, im back on topic now. you should ask him if hes really gay or not

    To:creator of this story

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  • kellstar

    Sounds like your rejection hurt him. If your both young them hopefully he will grow out of it and if not then maybe it's time to move on and let your friendship go. Having a negative friend in your life us a downer and definitely not worth the heartache

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  • Lol sounds like nerd rage. Funny how 2 seconds before he wanted you and then turns on you and tells you all this crap. Just a big baby you don't need in your life in my opinion.

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  • sweetcheeks21

    Babe maybe he just took your rejection badly i say keep
    Your distance until he apologises.

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  • Jessie735513

    He is suffering rejection and venting it at you

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  • BoredGuy

    Bisexual, rejection from both worlds.

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  • 343Boy

    I think he just badly wants a relationship, and he unfortunately can't find it with another guy even though he's gay, he tried you and got rejected, he sounds very desperate.

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  • blacksheepinasia

    He just doesn't completely understand who he is. If he's gay, than he suffers innumerable pressures on how a "gay" should act. I don't know how old you guys are, but sometimes one's identity can take a long time to find. Especially if sexual identity is not clear. Someone said he may be pretending to be gay, i'm not going to shoot this idea down but it's probably not likely. He very well may be bisexual and just confused on how to act or show who he is, especially if he thought he was gay. Your rejection hurt him, but you seem to have waited and said it nicely. Still, rejection is still rejection.
    Honestly though, if he keeps hurting you, you have to put your self first and just let go. Unhealthy relationships are no good to hold on to.

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  • epicbirdythe1

    If you dont already have a boyfriend,im free.Will you be my online girlfriend??

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    • epicbirdythe1

      SOMOENE PLEASE ANWSER THIS

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      • epicbirdythe1

        YOU KNOW WHAT, NOBODY ANWER THIS THEN!!

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  • He's acting like he's gay to get girls. I have. Friend who does it and he gets all the girls, which really pisses us guys off.

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    • Gidget

      how the fuck would pretending like ur gay get girls? thats messed up

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      • RedHots

        Because girls like to hang around and talk to and flirt with gay guys more than they do straight guys. I don't really know why, but maybe it's because alot of gay guys are more feminine and have an easier time talking about girly things with girls. Who knows.

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