Is it normal for a friend to do shit like this....

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My really good friend and I were getting close to this new kid.

He's super attractive and has a wonderful personality.
I'm the type of girl who doesn't fall for boys easily...but? I fell for his witty sense of humor and etc.
She finds him beautifully attractive too.
But? I told Her PLENTY of times that I'd like to date him.

She says she respects my heart and she'll back off.
This boy and I talk and yet he tells me he would love to date me.

She decides to plan a weekend for all of us to hangout.
I sadly can't go because of my mother being dumb.

I look at his next status.

They are fucking dating...

IS THIS FUCKING NORMAL!D:

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Based on 79 votes (27 yes)

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thebuddah

13 years ago | pl

It's normal and happens all the time in the 8th grade

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Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

13 years ago | pl

Yes that is normal.

Your demands were selfish and unreasonable. YOU have to grow up and learn that "I WANT HIM!" doesn't mean you will get him or that he will want you back.

You want to say "It's not right! She took him" but that's not true. You never owned him in the first place.

He chose her not you.

YOU are the one treating your friend like shit not the other way around.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  13 years ago
  
  Your comments make me wish there was something cooler that a like button. A "cake" button maybe.
  
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bleach_baby

13 years ago

hahahahahahahaha!

that is all.

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[Old Memory]

13 years ago

Yes its normal just because you like someone doesnt mean your friend cant. You need to grow up.

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- Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
  
  13 years ago
  
  Exactly.
  
  I once wanted a guy and one of our mutual friends tried to hook us up. Instead they ended up together.
  
  Was I upset? I think I was... but in the long run it worked out.
  
  If I had gotten him, it would have been HELL on me, because he was already in love with her.
  
  And then I wouldn't have met the man I'm with, the one who truly makes me happy.
  
  The OP should swallow her ego and be happy for her friend.
  Just because she isn't getting what she wants, doesn't mean she won't end up getting what she needs.
  
  However if she carries on whining about her friend, she'll end up making it hell for everyone and will probably destroy a few friendships... and destroying friendships just because her ego is bruised is very immature.
  
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[Old Memory]

13 years ago

Ugh grow up. You can't just "Lay claim" to people. Why should your friend have to miss out on happiness just because you like a guy? First come first served.

Obviously the reason he chose your friend is because you weren't present at your date. So if you want to be angry at someone be angry at your mother for not letting you go (assuming you are of reasonable age, which I doubt)

Yes, your friend probably shouldn't have lied and said she would back off, but come on, she has every right to try for love.

Get over yourself.

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randomjelly

13 years ago

You mentioned that she also expressed an interest in him so if you had started dating him instead would you expect her not to have the same anger that you do now?

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hardcandy

13 years ago

I agree - you both liked the kid, so why do you automatically get him if he likes you both? Remember, he's a boy, and likely a very young one at that. He was probably telling her the same things he told you. Normal.

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lovebuzz1025

13 years ago

normal. But pretty bitchy

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foxyfox

13 years ago

girls are dumb

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iBeatMyWife

13 years ago

2 sluts fighting over a guy

If he really liked you he wouldn't date her. But now he's gonna bang you both haha

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pixie_dust

12 years ago

sound like brandy and monica

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xEmilyStrangex

12 years ago

It's not like the stole your boyfriend or anything, you both liked him and she just got in there first, totally normal.

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JanieKaykes

13 years ago

People tend to do crappy things. It sucks but it is normal.

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[Old Memory]

13 years ago

I'm 18.

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Ldizzy1234

13 years ago

Looks like your friend snatched him away from you. If your friend knew you liked him, and she did this, I don't think shes a true friend. She betrayed you. Thats messed up what she did, and I'd search for a new friend.

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youknowit

13 years ago

I had an experience very similar to your story happen to me and I thought I would be the big person and just let them go out and still remain friends with both. However as time went by I heard that she was spreading lies about me and bad mouthing me to everyone including him... Long story short I have cut her from my life because if she's willing to do that SHE IS NOT A FRIEND!

PS: after all that he still says he made the wrong choice and loves me to this day but the way I see it if he wanted me bad enough he would have said no to her.

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DannyKanes

13 years ago

Note B:

If a girl falls into the following criteria, she is off limits forever until the end of time:
A. Was an ex-girlfriend.
B. Your Bro specifically told you he wanted her.
C. Is you're Bro's sister.
However, if it's your Bro's cousin, well she's up for grabs, and you're welcome to rub it in his face for years to come.

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Sweetz

13 years ago

Doesn't seem like a good friend

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DannyKanes

13 years ago

Sorry but your "friend" is a bitch. This is why girls need a bro code.

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