Is it normal for a friend i see a lot acts distance?

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I have this girl-friend I see about 4 days a week because of school and work. I like her and I wanna talk to her everyday. Seeing her 4 days a week isn't enough... When we're together she doesn't tell me much of anything. When texting she takes forever to respond. I asked her out three times already but agreed to stay good friends when she completely shut me down. I have a feeling she feels obligated to hangout with me since she rarely asks me what I'm doing or see if I want to do something. I know she doesn't like me but what our friendship? Did I kill it...

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    It sounds like she's being distant because she's already told you that she doesn't want a relationship beyond friendship.

    Perhaps you should stop texting her for a while and just leave her alone. I mean it's not like you won't see her again - you already see her 4 times a week as it is.

    Perhaps your decision that 4 times "isn't enough" is making her feel crowded and smothered

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  • YoBanana
    13 years ago

    Most likely she feels a little awkward around you. Maybe she acts distant because she feels that she doesn't want to lead u on or she doesn't want to do something that might make u think she likes you. This behavior might last a while

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    She's most likely in disarray because of what happened. It's happened to me lots of times, just try and act as if nothing happened, she'll eventually get back into the mood before you asked her out.

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