Is it normal for a cousin to be attracted to you?

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I'm going to keep this short because I'm weirded out, I'm guessing women can answer this one more accurately.

I'm 19/M

My cousin is 16/F

She seems to act different around me, constantly, I don't like the way she is getting too friendly with me and I'm recognising all the signs of flirtation coming from her. Obviously, I can't call her out on it, I'm just going to distance myself. I'm just wondering if I'm being to rash though, maybe she is genuinely naive? But her coming into my room, lying on my bed, singing sexual song lyrics, looking at me straight in the eye, giggling and shaking her behind while lying on my bed, ass facing me isn't normal behaviour, she must know that she's showing too much skin, right?. This is all the while wearing skin-tight jeans and half a top, so I can basically see everything up above her belly, down to her ass if I wanted to. I feel nothing towards her romantically, sure, she's attractive and if she wasn't my cousin I would probably have sex with her, but the fact we're related and she's actually acting like this is weird. I think if I didn't know her, and watch her grow up, it'd be fine, but I remember her when she was younger, she didn't act like this, I'm guessing it's hormones.

I'm a decent, intelligent and relatively good looking guy, but why, for the love of fuck, would a cousin flirt with me? I would never do that!

Have any of you girls ever flirted with an older cousin? If so why?
This shit is fucked up.

Please help me.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Boy, where have you been all through your teen years? ALL little girls like to "flirt" and ply their feminine wiles on any guy they can. With you, this one can really let loose and go whole hog because she knows you (her cousin) won't take her up on her enticements. She's just a playing with you and are you ever playing right into her game.
    Ignore the little vixen and she'll go elsewhere soon enough.

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    • IReallyLikeBacons
      9 years ago

      Cheers for the reply, I have been ignoring her, for quite a while actually.
      I'm attracted to women, not girls, especially not cousins!

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  • Shackleford96
    9 years ago

    I just want to say that you are like, my IIN hero dude. I just want to shake your hand and give you a high five. Seriously.

    I think you should have a talk with her. Let her know that she needs to stop acting like that towards/around you (whether she knows she's doing it or not). Put an end to it. Threaten to tell her parents or something. Lol.

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    • IReallyLikeBacons
      9 years ago

      Cheers, I wouldn't bother mentioning it to her, she'd probably act like she'd no idea and I was being a weird or something. I'll just conveniently be at the gym when she appears on Sundays lmao.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Tell her to stop acting nasty.

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  • Couman
    9 years ago

    Is she hot?

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    • IReallyLikeBacons
      9 years ago

      For others, I could see them finding her attractive, for me? No, she's too young, inexperienced and not to mention, my cousin.

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