Is it normal for a chick to go to this much trouble to see a friend ?

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I'm in love with my sisters friend but I'm not sure how she feels. Is it normal for a friend to go to such extremes to visit and stay over just for their friendship ?
My sisters VERY prickly and although she can be fantastic she's also extremely clever and manipulative when she doesn't like something so it's been tricky.
The friend and I get along really well and there's definite attraction on my part but it does take us time whenever she's over to loosen up around each other. She's a pretty tense sort of nervous person , guarded , until she trusts someone and often by the time we've loosened up she's left again, add a prickly sister and well , I just haven't been able to get far as yet, I dunno how she feels about me and I don't wanna wreck anything.
But she's gone through a lot to get over and stay , she often stays much longer and it gets her into trouble at home , she's just packed and rang for us to pick her up a few times too when no ones home and hasn't told anyone , just came over , next minute someones on the phone - where the hell are you but she stays anyway, love that !
Now they've moved 2 hrs away and she doesn't drive so she's catching the train over which isn't a direct run so means changing trains a few times and stuff , it'll take 1/2 the day so it's a big thing.
I've also been scared of scaring her off so far , we all have so much fun together and she's very loyal to my sister, that I just haven't been able to find a time I've felt good about to maybe talk and my sisters very cagey to so.
But she asks about me a lot and if we're coming over , she's always asking if we can all do something when she's here or where I am , this much I have been able to get out of my sister but I'm not sure in what way that is !

I dunno , one thing in my favor though I'm hoping is that she seems to go to a bit too much trouble just for a friend thing with my sister , I'm hoping that means it could be me!
Any votes or feedback welcome.
Thanks

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  • blaster
    12 years ago

    Thanks Alison . what a dream come true that'd be . i see her again in 2 wks , so exited.

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    Yeah, she probably likes you. I agree with the other two posts.

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  • blaster
    12 years ago

    You think , I've been such a miserable mess since she/they left but they'd be so busy getting settled in, I didn't want to pester anyone or turn her off .
    I've actually only just began thinking the opposite to be honest b/c we're so nervous around each other I've thought that can't be very good. Mind you with me that's due mainly to severely over heating at the mere sight of her I've realized, can't help it.
    But the night before they left I cuddled into her , hands got a little wondery tho I couldn't help it and she wriggled away then but - she did come back so I thought that was encouraging , then we were disturbed and the next morning everyone was here and they left. Neither of us strung two words together tho around each other and my sister was glued to her and of they sailed- ouch

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  • GeorgeMcBob
    12 years ago

    Go get her! Nobody in their right mind would to to so much trouble to see your sister. Chat with her online and make plans to meet somewhere without the sister to interfere.

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  • 4theloveofdez
    12 years ago

    I think she likes you. That is a lot to go through just to see a person and her bringing you up to your sister seems like shes interested. Flirt with her & see where it takes you.

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