Is it normal for a *brother* (good friend) to do this?

I am an 18 year old male and in my life, I liked (more than a friend) 4 different girls. I liked (still like) this girl I met in 4th grade. And I reacently graduated. I don't see her that much though because she moved in 5th grade to a another city and transferred to a different school. I still see her sometimes. Then I met this girl in 7th grade. She hated me that year but then we became really good friends in 8th grade and 9th grade. (shes still my friend but I havent talked to her in a while) Then I transferred schools the next year and finished high school in this school. I met these 2 girls when I was in 11th grade. And I have this one friend who I treat like a brother. Recently when we graduated, me and my *brother* started to hang out more and party a lot. Anyway when me and him were at this party we went to in the summer, I ended up seeing the girl who I met in 7th grade. Me and her were happy to see each other because we havent talked in a while. So I introduced her to my *brother* like any person would do. So let left them alone to get aquaintanced and I went to go talk to some old high school friends. About 20 minutes later I was going up to them and I saw them flirting and what not. So I got really jealous but I didn't want to start anything anything because I would end up getting kicked out. So I left the party and went home without anyone knowing. So I havent talked to my *brother* for quite a while. So about 2-3 months ago, he wanted to chill at my house because he was really bored. So I said whatever. And I was busy talking to the one of the 2 girls that I liked on oovoo. (BTW, oovoo is a a chat thing similar to skype if any of you didn't know) He ended up at my door so I said to my friend that I will be back and I went to open the door and then he said he will be chilling in my room while I went to get something to eat because I was really hungry. Then I just remembered that I had oovoo open with my friend waiting there. So by the time I went to my room, they already started talking. So she said that she wanted to talk to me privately for a second, so my *brother* left the room while I was talking to her and she said that she likes him. I was upset instantly. so I said I would be back again. So my friend starting talking to him again and they ended up texting each other and what not a few weeks later and then they started to go out. I was going crazy with anger. My *brother* and the other girl who I met in 7th grade were still being good friends at the time. (better friends than me and her were friends) This is all 2 months ago and I'm still upset because he still goes out with her and talks to the other girl and now a week ago, I find out that hes friends with the other oovoo girl that I mentioned. If he ends up being friends with the girl I like from 4th grade, then I don't know what I'll do. Should I talk to someone about this? is it normal for a *brother* to take the girls you like?

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Comments ( 5 )
  • He's a dillhole. If he does that then he's not really a good friend at all. Find some better friends.

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  • silentscreams17

    If you told him how you feel he's an ass if you didn't maybe you should

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  • TheBoss92

    Your right. this is mostly all my fault. Thanks for the advice though.

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  • harrypotters

    Did you ever tell him how you felt about the girl or tell the girl anything?. If not you can't balme him for flirting and dating the girl. How was either of them ment to know that you marked her as your mental teritory grow up. If you didn't do anything to get her don;t get mad when someone willing to gets her before you. Yeah it sucks but dont blame either unless they knew before hand.

    I would suggest getting out and socialising more unless you are planning on going out, with one of the girls you have been chatting to. As you seem to focus you love live around these four girls and dont talk about looking at others. Who know's if you go out you might find some amazing girl that will take your mind off them good luck.

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  • scotty4444

    You need to find some less attractive, less interesting friends. I know, find a short guy and befriend him!!!

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