Is it normal for a boyfriend to say some girl is cute?

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so if you were at your boyfriends house and were hanging out with two other girls. and your boyfriend kept telling one of the girls that she was so pretty and georgous and just wouldnt stop saying it, and infornt of you is that bad?
this happened to my friend and she doesnt know what to do. she is thinking about breaking up with him. they have been together for almost a year.

should she break up with him or stay with him?

idk what i think. i do think that that is a horrible stupid thing to do. i dont see why a boyfriend would say some girl is pretty and all that stuff to her infront of their girlfriend. that just isnt right. but i know how hard it would be to end it with the guy.

pleaseee help!

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  • Noonesperfect
    12 years ago

    What a jerk

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  • Caryopteris
    9 years ago

    Lots of people are insensitive to others' feelings. Somebody should talk to him - not scold him - but just explain how that sounds to a girl (or to many guys, too). It is one thing to be watching TV and have your boyfriend state somebody on TV is pretty and then move on to other topics, but for a boy to compliment another girl when he has a girlfriend makes it sound like he is hoping to trade up. Not cool. However, when you are young you shouldn't settle down too long with one person generally. You can learn more by spending time dating a variety of people. Honestly most people don't have a clue who they are until they are about 30. Unfortunately it is easiest on the human body to have kids in your 20s. Choose very, very carefully. There are no perfect people, but they need to be interested in work and saving money in a way that meshes with your own beliefs.

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  • Blackwargreymon
    12 years ago

    Depends on the relationship.

    I'm very honest and open towards my gf. When I see someone who is cute, I will tell her. When I have a crush on someone I tell her. Plus I would and have said to other girls that they are cute/hot/have a nice body in front of her. (And she knows I'm serious.) I would even ask other girls their phonenumber.

    I do not repress like others and I respect my gf too much to be dishonest. This all is possible in a relationship where honesty, respect and an open-mind exist.

    In the end the question is: is it possible in their relationship? And has any uncomfort caused by either ones behaviour been communicated to the other?

    (The rant is to show that the signals most people seem to react to, can just as well or in my case[s] be positive.)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I thought I should comment to break the blue :) Oh and he sounds like an idiot. Would it be normal for her to hit on a guy in front of him?

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  • anonalexis
    12 years ago

    COMMUNICATION! tell her to talk to the guy about it. then make an informed decision.

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  • bigguy2010
    12 years ago

    It does not sound like he has very much respect for his girlfriend.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    No, he shouldn't be saying those things. He has a girlfriend and that's just a lack of respect towards her. It's not something that I consider being worth breaking up with him but she should tell him that it hurts a lot to hear that from the person she loves. He should only be saying those things to her. If he continues doing it and keeps hurting her, it would be better to leave this child alone.

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  • MagickWithoutTears
    12 years ago

    Talk to her boyfriend, explain how she feels about the situation, listen to his explanation, that sounds like a good start.

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  • iiznotnormal
    12 years ago

    Just lol :p

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