Is it normal for a boyfriend of only 5 weeks to be so pushy for sex?

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Okay so I've been dating my boyfriend for about 5 weeks. He is everything I've been looking for. When we met I was a virgin, had only dated a few times, and only had one serious 5 year relationship. I am 19 and he is 26.. he has one 2 yr old daughter, been in the army for 6 years.. so he has been through alot more then me. I really hadn't gottin out much before.
We had sex (my first time) 3 1/2 weeks into our relationship. Now all he does is ask for it, bring it up, and gets mad. Should I break up with him by his actions? He is pressuring me when I tell him no, that I really am not ready to have sex on a regular basis. But he just gets mad?
He has told me he loves me.. and I him. But every since he has done these things I've been questioning it (love). Maybe we've said "I love you" too soon into this? I think also he may be with me becouse of my looks, he is not all thaat good looking but I thought everything else about him was so amazing that, that didn't matter, until this. Help?!?

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  • okbaby
    11 years ago

    For your sake you should break it off before he starts getting abusive to you. There is more to life than just sex.
    I myself would love to get laid but I want to have feelings for the woman that I would be with before we jump in bed. Also when someone says no man or woman that should be it end of story. So he can accept no when it comes to sex it's time for him to hit the road.
    Good luck to

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  • asdf90091
    13 years ago

    It's lust not love. If he loved you he wouldn't push so hard for sex. Most likely he's more interested in a place to stick his penis than he is in you as a person. Make your feelings on sex clear to him and if he doesn't accept them, find someone else.

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  • MercedesBenz
    13 years ago

    You have to consider that you are dating a guy that is older and more experienced than you. He probably is used to regular sex. So you walked into a relationship where his expectations are a little different than yours. Now you have to decide if you want to change your expectations or if it is something you don't want to compromise on, and move on. I don't think the guy is abnormal for his sex drive, he is 26, and has more experience. I just think the combination of you two and your expectations is what is clashing. So decide for yourself which way you will go with this.

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  • goFUCKyourself
    13 years ago

    ^^that wont happen u idiot men are horny ALL the time and naturally want sex a lot the guy is normal sooo let up a bit

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  • Deceiver
    13 years ago

    this isnt love...i would break off as soon as possible.trust me u will find a guy that will want to have sex every now and then and will support you for who u are.

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  • lilBlondeQTpie
    13 years ago

    See that's what I'm thinking too. And I really have to figure this all out and soon cuz he's expecting me to move in with him. He just bought a house that is almost 1 hr away from my home. I am afraid that I will move in with him and everything will get even worse. ):

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  • marley56
    13 years ago

    Wow, he moves fast. If its all he talks about and thinks about and gets upset when he doesn't get it... From a guys point of view, he's using you to get off. Or he might just be super horny all the time. But if u told him it was ur first time, and u did it THEN he started talking about it all e time... Well, now that he knows u will have sex with him, it's all he wants. So my best guess is that he's probably using u. Sorry.

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