Is it normal for a boy to feel used?

That's kinda sad :( You're going to get alot of trolly negative comments in here, but I say it's normal. You just need to find someone special before you decide to go that far. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. It sort of liek they say "Wait untill your ready" I totally get that. Good luck :)

Thank you though to those of you who were helpful. No, I don't think I'm ace, but I'm less sexual than most guys. I'd love to meet someone asexual though, because I'm not entirely sure what it is exactly

The only reason you're feeling bad for your values is because soceity places too much pressure on males to be ''macho'' and to ''go get some action''. You sound like a nice good hearted person, and as for wanting to find a boy like yourself, I doubt it's truly a gay thing, more like you want to have a dude friend who will understand and validate your ideals without being a jerk and making you feel abnormal. I wish more boys thought like you do!

Sounds normal to me. You just sound like a sensitive guy which is not a bad thing. If a girl doesn't want to be friends with you, that's not a bad thing, you can't be friends with everyone and you can't please everyone. WHen it comes to love, just wait for a girl that loves you that you love as well, that cares about you and isn't think about sex as her first priority although it may become a part of your relationship eventually. Let this girl know that you want to take things slow, and if you start to get intimate after a while of you two being together, don't feel ashamed that she wants to turn you on or show you herself. She will be sharing a special part of her with you and it will be passionate and meaningful.

@Juniper I don't feel bad for my values, I feel great about them, I don't want to be 'macho' or whatever. I also didn't ask if it was a gay thing, I really don't care. I'd love to meet a boy like me, and, who knows, maybe it would turn into a relationship. I have no problem with that idea.

OMG partofeveryone im the same!!!!!! Is there a way to do personal messages on this site?...

Im 17 and the exact same way. I feel like an almost Transgendered mindset, like id be better at being a girl. Im straight tho so its confusing

wow. You're all so helpful. No, I'm not gay, I like girls, I just don't want to have sex with them at this point in my life. I will not 'enjoy the pussy'. That's fucking disgusting. I am attracted to certain boys, but almost zero, so I'm bi, but I'm so picky with boys I might as well be straight.

shellyyeah2 you sound like an idiot.

Maybe you're gay? Ever tought of that?

I've been like you for a long time. Got over it though. Love isn't always fun, especially if the person you love doesn't love you. When you meet someone you can really love you should go for her, but before that, don't feel bad kissing/fucking other girls.

You sound a little bit like an exaggurated version of me in a few years time. I don't know about normal, but I can understand why you feel that way.

I have a best friend who is asexual so he sort of understands, and a best friend who sort of feels the same way as me but is more confident than me so he sort of understands.

You sure you're not a homo?

Come on man, just enjoy pussy! You're the winner here. Imagine that, girls get their self-esteem higher because YOU had sex with them. Isn't that an awesome way to look at it?

LOL!

I felt like you when it first happened to me. Then I said let me just enjoy the sex.

I don't give a fuck about love at this juncture of my life, that'll come later in life after I graduate uni, and start a career, that's when I'll search for love.