Is it normal for a almost 18 year old adopted daughter to ask ?

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Is it normal for an almost 18 year old adopted daughter to ask her father to take her bra shopping when she has a car, friends, and a mother and a job.? Her mother recently told her that her father is not her father. She has never asked him to bra shop before. It doesn't seem right to me. Does anyone think this is normal behavior? I am being accused of being sick and demented.. when I said, it made me uncomfortable that a teenager would want her dad to go with her to buy bras. He should give her money, and she should ask a friend, or go alone. I didn't think it was appropriate am I wrong? Is it normal? I already feel she is very manipulative and he talks like she is the only child he has, and the 2 bio kids.. are ignored over her. I am uncomfortable about all of it now. What do you think?

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  • ilovetoiletrolls
    9 years ago

    Uh what's wrong with this? My sister is 19 and she goes bra shopping and bathing suit shopping with my Dad. She just gets on better with him so he gives her his opinion on things if they look good or not, etc. I mean she sends me pix too so I can comment but my Dad and her are besties so if a bra or bathing suit looks great on her, he'll tell her or recommend something else.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    **blows large greenish lumpy toad**

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    • shuggy-chan
      9 years ago

      a wild Ioncecamesohard appears =O

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  • CDmale4fem
    8 years ago

    Maybe because she is "adopted" he tries harder to make her feel as tho she is as important as the other 2. I am adopted also and yes there times when it seemed like I just didnt belong. The younger bio sons seems many times were the ones with that he was more proud of over the years, and I dont, I just felt like the black sheep alot. But when I was 13 and I realized I was a crossdresser, that could have made me feel like an outsider due to, well things.

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  • timetochange
    9 years ago

    I he helping her to pick it out or is he just taking her to the store.

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  • Parky_Parker
    9 years ago

    I'm 24 and never went bra shopping with either of my parents. It would have been weird. But we are eastern Europeans and my parents are really old fashioned and just plain old. For Americans, that might be normal. And maybe it also depends from household to household?

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