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Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to want to be with older men? Both physically and sexualy?
My friend went through the same thing. She was attracted to the guy n everything but it was all about the sex :/ I guess for me it's normal since I like older guys but I'd be veeery careful! Younger girls, especially 12-16, are curious bout sex n think older men might provide closure n be protective of them. Older guys looking for younger girls might just want tight pussy or a girl they can manipulate. Im not saying EVERY young girl older guy relationship is like this, it's just my experience(:
It's normal if you have a crush on him, but it would be illegal for you to date him. So you know this crush won't go anywhere, right?
Depends on why she wants to be with them. If it's for money, than she's a gold digger but if she's truly attracted to them then it's different. I don't see a problem as I'm basically the same way. I have little to no attraction to my peers. Since, my early or mid teens I've been attracted to people who were older than me. My "attraction" has nothing to do with financial gain or psychological issues. I find it interesting that when an attraction veers away from the norm, society often comes up with negative views towards the situation.
see now this is fucked up...yes its normal for a young girl to like older men both sexually and mentally, but as soon as an older guy likes a younger girl suddenly he's a sex offender! What kind of shit is that? I know plenty of young girls that like older men. I'm fine with this. And if everyone else is then why send a guy to prison for being wit a young girl? I mean its one thing if the guy like raped the girl but I know plenty of couples like some friends of mine. He's 23 and she's 14 with a baby and they are totally in love. Now in society's eyes its wrong, and they have to hide their love anytime they are in public. So I dont know...I cant remember my point. But its there somewhere!
Nah. He is totally right. You don't have to be a pedophile to notice the blaring double standard that men face when they're attracted to a younger woman. If people can accept an older woman dating an underage guy, why can't they accept an adult male seeing an adolescent/teenage female? I mean, my hackles raise when I think of some guy taking advantage of a young woman, but that isn't always the case. I have a friend that met his gf when he was 23 and she was 15. Her parents had him arrested and thrown in prison. He got out 2 years later and guess what happened? That girl ran straight into his arms and never spoke to her parents again, and they're engaged to be married next year. When dealing with something as fragile and volatile as love, you can't just stick the 'statutory tape' sticker on it and be done.
You have problems that is ttotally disgusting and im guessing your friend is actually you only a peddo thinks like that
Nah, It might seem fine for now, but the girl doesn't know who she truly is at that age, and has a lot more things she must go trough, besides the guy is already close to settling down age, and the chick cant even legally party, she wont want to be with him forever.