Is it normal for a 19 yo old to date someone who's 27?

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Like, i'm pretty mature for my age. And I love him for 2 years now.

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Based on 17 votes (14 yes)
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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    You've been with him for 2 years. Why are you just asking this now? You already know how you feel about him, it shouldn't matter.

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  • januarycurse
    8 years ago

    there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. you are in the same age range.

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    • sega31098
      8 years ago

      Not really. A 19 year old is a late adolescent/young adult. A 27 year old is a full scale adult.

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  • modernism
    8 years ago

    That "like" in the beginning of your sentence made me read the sentence like a valley girl.

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    • BlueCarrie
      8 years ago

      English isn't my first language so I'm sorry if it bothered you. I'm from Europe :) trying to improve my English on a daily basis.

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      • modernism
        8 years ago

        Haha, it's okay. No problem at all - your English is perfect. :)

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    • dytrog
      8 years ago

      I don't know what you mean by that. Can you explain it to me?

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      • modernism
        8 years ago

        Well, the most generalized description I could think of is a blonde white American female from California that spends most of her time in a mall and has a vocabulary mainly consisting of words such as "like", "totes", "whatever", and "omg".

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        • chained_rage
          8 years ago

          No you went and contaminated my brain, making me like totes read all tha cumments like ah Cali blonde omg

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          • modernism
            8 years ago

            Mission accomplished.

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  • Caryopteris
    8 years ago

    It's not terribly unusual for a 19-year-old to be attracted to a 27-year-old, but it is not a good sign that he is attracted to a 19-year-old. I would say it is okay for dating, but after two years, you are probably quite attached. Ideally you would date other people, but there is also no guarantee that you would meet a better match for you. What do your friends and family members that you respect say? If they are people that are just always critical of you and not genuinely interested in your welfare, then their opinions can't carry too much weight for you. But if they love and care about you and are gently suggesting he isn't right for you, then you should think long and hard about it. You could be missing out on some wonderful people.

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    • BlueCarrie
      8 years ago

      I haven't told them yet... They wouldn't understand. And yes, like you said, I'm attached. We don't rush things, we're really alike and I'm happy.

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  • dytrog
    8 years ago

    Sounds they just let venant out of her cage once a mo. to watch 30 year old movies. Valley girls?

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  • dytrog
    8 years ago

    How do you know he is not seeing other girls. Has he ever mentioned marriage? Does he take you out in public in your town. Do you know where he lives. Have you spent the night at his house.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      That's kinda impossible. Regarding we live in a town where everyone knows each other. My niece knows his sister too, and his sister is really close to him. He wouldn't hurt me. Ofc I know where he lives, and yes I did spend at his house. No sex though,

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