Is it normal for a 23 year old woman to have had over 10 sex partners ?

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My wife at first suggested she had around three. Her comment was you know I had two serious BF's so you figure it out. So then I asked if the first BF was her first partner which she never really answered. So I always figured 3 before me. Then after years of marriage without ever admitting any thing it was pretty clear that number is higher. This comes from overhearing conversations with her long time gf's over a period of 10 years or so, and coming across old pictures. GFs showing old pictures of trips to the beach or other things, parties or whatever. Who's that? Where were you? I'm thinking it's closer to ten before me. It doesn't matter so please stick to the question, is it normal.

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  • littledicky
    6 years ago

    some women have had more, most less, but it's all normal.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Ok assume the 3 years and let's say 45 (40 males and 5 girls). That's roughly one a month or one every 24.33 days. Not that many really compared to how often married people have sex.

    Just because they are married and monogamous doesn't give them the right to judge someone who isn't, but they do. Look how many times I've been called a slut on here, and I have sex far less than most who call me such things lol. Married people don't have exclusive rights to have sex.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    I'm 19 and have had sex with about 40 guys and 5 girls so 10 seems tame to me. Her number may be higher or lower than 10 but who cares? Honesty why does it matter?

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    • Joboo6
      6 years ago

      As I said in the post, it doesn't matter. I started the post to get a general idea of what was normal or mainstream. That's curiosity. 40, in three years? Wow. Why?

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        What do you mean 3 years?

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        • Joboo6
          6 years ago

          Just guessing that since most ladies have sex with a man for the first time at 16-17 years old. When did you first start? 40 seems like a lot for a 19 year old. Not judging, just saying. At 19 I was probably around that number but I had been with 6 different girls at 18 when I got out of HS. The summer I got out there were about another 5-6 then by the end of that year maybe 10 or so more. Now I working off memory but that would put me at 22 or so at my 19th birthday. I continued on this route up until I was 23. By then I must have been close to 100 or so. Problem I had was when I would meet some girl I really liked and may be thinking about settling down with one or more of my female friends would always warn or make a comment about my reputation. One used to refer to a new girl they would see me with as the "flavor of the week" an old baskin Robbins ice cream commercial. They would introduce a new flavor each week. This made it very difficult for me since I had met several really great girls that I was serious about, it scared them away from me.
          I was a really good looking tall guy and it always came easy back then. I guess I'm giving advice that wasn't asked for but I would hate for the same thing to happen to you. I would ease off the accelerator a bit. Once your older a committed relationship will mean much more than the random sex does when you're young. My past affected my opportunities for several great women.

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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome
    6 years ago

    She's a bit skanky imo.

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      Skanky? 10 partners??? Ummmm assume she started at 18 and has had 10 in those 5 years. That's one every six months.

      How often do you have sex?

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