Is it normal for a 29 year old woman to date a 20 year old guy?

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I went on a ski trip in Colorado with a group of college students that I work with ages 20-30 and met a local boy who helped me learn how to ski. We hung out for a few days and made out but didn't hook up. I want to go back in a few months to visit him and ski some more. Would it be super weird and cougar like to sleep with him? Would it ever be anything I could take seriously?

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Based on 94 votes (69 yes)
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  • frodo-the-banana-man
    13 years ago

    Whatev, my wife is 16 years older than I am... Age really only matters to everyone else, not you and your chosen mate... Besides you're both still in your twenties, so neither of you have a fucking clue about anything anyway...

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    • ifonlyuknew247
      10 years ago

      LOVE this...

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  • freebee
    13 years ago

    Go for it girl

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime
    13 years ago

    Why wouldn't it be normal?

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  • IDontAskMuch
    13 years ago

    My husband is 14 years younger than me. Been together two years and have a baby together. In the beginning things were great. I couldn't ask for more but since a drunken incident via the Internet by him some six months ago has proved a great strain on our relationship and things are getting worse. As time has passed I can actually see now how immature he is. I have given him everything handed on a plate. Things I have worked so hard for and all he does is abuse and take it all for granted. Just some advice. If you wanna settle down with someone older make sure you appreciate they are more mentally mature than you and won't always see your childish immature behaviour as funny nor exceptable and if you decide to date someone alot younger then expect the childish tantrums and Sulks and the lack of life experiences and their selfishness when it comes to them wanting to do shit for themselves constantly forgetting they have a family and responsibilities and basically leave you to pick up the pieces all the time why they please themselves and don't take things seriously. It's so draining. I never behaved the way he does at his age. I was far more grown up mature and responsible. His hurt me big time and to immature to acknowledge it.

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    • lufa
      11 years ago

      Informative post-sorry to hear about the trouble you've been going through. Unfortunately younger guys have a well-deserved reputation for being aloof, immature and irresponsible.

      They only start smartening up in their 30s and 40s. I'm 40 so I know all about it. You're probably better off finding a guy closer to your age.

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    • Lonely2
      8 years ago

      You hit the nail on the head..it isnt age per se but maturity.....women mature even faster and a young man might act in ways that turn you off big time...so its a question she has to find out for herself

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  • ashelizax
    13 years ago

    go for it!

    seriously though, i think i saw a lifetime about that.

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  • Cookies&Cream
    13 years ago

    They say love has no age. The only bad thing is that you will apper older on the outside. Other than that why not?

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  • Omega-Claws
    13 years ago

    Lmao adam

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  • Sencerselçuk
    13 years ago

    my first girlfriend was 45 when ı was 18 we had wonderfull love long time she was our neighbour I driwe her all night she was wonderfull old betterr than young sometime yes it is normall love is fine with everybody

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  • Adam_6996
    13 years ago

    hell yea...i used to be with a girl who was 29 and i was only 16..(i used to give it to her good thou)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Cougars are woman over 40.

    You're just desperate.

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    • MoneyTits
      13 years ago

      ha no i'm definitely really hot. Thanks tho

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      • Lonely2
        8 years ago

        If you are looking for good sex it might work..if you want a real relationship it probably wont..its up to you to figure if it can work by getting to know him better

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