Is it normal for a 27 year old to date a 17 year old?

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Last year when my brother was 17 he wanted to go to a high school party and he didn't have a driver license yet so my parents made me drive him, and I decided to look inside and stay for a little bit to see if he was safe. I met an awesome girl there, she was 16 at the time, and I told her I was 17 and a senior in high school (I was 26 at the time but I look young for my age so she believed me). We exchanged numbers and she became kind of my girlfriend. Well I am 27 now I have a job and make some money but I still live with my parents, my brother is going away to college next September, and she is going to be a senior in high school starting next September. I told her I was starting college and she believed me, and I told her I could come home every weekend to spend time with her and that I would be loyal to her no matter what, and she thought that was so romantic and sweet and she gave me a kiss. I really like her and everything, I've had girlfriends in the past but I never felt this strongly about a person until I met her, even though she is 17 and I'm pretending to be 18 even though I'm 27. I believe age is only a number and should never get in between two people who really care about each other.

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  • modernism
    8 years ago | pl

    The age difference is a whole other topic. The main issue with your situation is that you're lying to her. Saying "age is just a number" doesn't justify dishonesty. At all.

    There's no way your relationship with her is going to end well.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    Way to build a loving and trusting relationship, on a lie. I guess if you are just going for the sex, you'll be just fine, but what's going to happens if you really fall for her, and she dumps your stupid ass for lying to her?

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  • deshikd
    8 years ago | pl

    No. She isn't even an adult yet and you are almost 30. And you're lying to her? This is disgusting, leave her alone.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Fuck you, you're a liar!

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  • Darkoil
    8 years ago

    "I believe age is only a number and should never get in between two people who really care about each other "

    If that was true you wouldn't of lied about your age you dumb bastard.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    That's fucked up, ma-...boy.

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  • Shackleford96
    8 years ago

    Nothing about this is normal. You should stop being such a sleezeball and come clean to her with the truth. If she doesn't dump you right then and there, which she probably should, then maybe you will have a chance.

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  • toofgod
    8 years ago

    It's like catching an undersized fish. If you get caught instead of a hefty fine were talking about prison time. Hold off on intercourse untill she reaches 18 or you may regret it

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  • sega31098
    8 years ago

    The fact that you're dating someone who is 17 isn't a massive deal in itself, but the fact that you're lying to her about your age is atrocious. At least let her know that she's dating someone with a significant maturity difference. What you are doing is highly exploitative and can get you into legal trouble.

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    • sega31098
      7 years ago

      Also, if she is under the age consent in your jurisdiction you should break it off immediately.

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  • G)d
    8 years ago

    Do it! If it feels good DO IT!

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    • 53739
      8 years ago

      Lol best comment ever

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  • sega31098
    7 years ago

    As an additional note, if she is under the age consent in your jurisdiction you should break it off immediately.

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  • harukim
    8 years ago

    No, this is a relationship built upon a lie. it will not last. please change your course!

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  • dytrog
    8 years ago

    It's normal looking at a beautiful body. We all do it as soon as a girl develops tits and a nice ass.
    It is wrong to let your dick do your thinking. Leave her alone !!!!!!!!!!11

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  • daydreamer394
    8 years ago

    It's normal until I read you're a deceitful scumbag.

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    What are you gonna tell her when she finds out that you are ten years older than her?
    Unless her name is Sara Connors, I doubt she will believe you

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  • sega31098
    8 years ago

    The fact that a 27 year old is dating a 17 year olds isn't a massive deal (considering it's legal in most developed countries except maybe some US states and Malta) but the fact that you're lying to her about your age is atrocious. This is probably an exploitative relationship and you need to tell her straight away.

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