Is it normal for a 20 year old to be in love with a 16 year old!

Im 20 years of age and I feel in love with a 16 year old! I know the law states that as long as we are NOT engaging in any sexual activity im in clear to date! So i really dont want to hear about the illegal crap, i want to just know if its normal.

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Based on 123 votes (99 yes)
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Comments ( 25 )
  • Justsomejerk

    This contravenes the standard creepiness rule by one year.

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  • highrider

    Age is just a number.
    Lol ya just like jail is just a room

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  • kingsleycrowne

    Aw young love makes me smile :)

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      me2

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  • ScorpioDB

    I'm 20, dating 15yo girl. It is normal ;) ...just watch out for law... In my country, we can have sex after age of 15.

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  • mayjay

    To me it is completely normal. Age does not matter.

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  • Thatguy777

    Yes, this is normal. I'm 18, and the only girl I ever had serious feelings for is 14.

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  • ravageme

    It is not abnormal.By 16, most women can make their own decisions about dating, but with the parents concent of course. By this age, they are attractive too. Law has one of the most stupid stipulations. If you are in love with her, LET her know, and see where she stands with you. If you are both liking each other, or in love, you will be patient. There are many things in a relationship that do not involve SEX. Sex is there, but there are many things in life that man need from a woman, other than her pussy. Somethings about her attracted you to her. Find these things, tell her, and grow together.

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  • GreyWulfen

    Absolutely normal.

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  • Lynxikat

    So you don't think a sophomore in college being in love with a high schooler is creepy?

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    • PokieWoo

      Yes thats why i asked : )

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  • Mask3r

    I see it normal; love doesn't care about ages, it does about appearance and feelings.

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  • Epofly

    It's normal, I guess. I was 17 when I dated my first boyfriend, who was 21. It was weird and all, with his being a senior in college and my being a senior in high school. The age gap and occasional discrepancies in maturity caused some difficulty, especially when he ended up getting a real job while I stayed in college, generally naive about a lot of things.

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  • WasThatAMoth

    It's totally normal. I think this was the norm a few hundred years back or so. But yea just do your "thang" without doing that "thang"....

    -_-

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  • Avant-Garde

    I suggest waiting until she's of legal age if you want to be in a romantic relationship to her. Also, if you wait it should prevent people from accusing you of being a pedophile.

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  • NiceKitty

    Sure.. Just try not to rush things even though you're not going to listen to a random stranger on the Internet. Still... Don't rush things.

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    • PokieWoo

      If the advice is good i dont care if u were a dead person! So thank you : )

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      • NiceKitty

        No problem =]

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  • fissionmailed

    16 year olds are puppy love, don't do it. Unless you got a room saved for you in prison

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  • NEKKIJ

    i feel u...i was 15 nd was in love with a 24 yr old..nd my mom knew
    ....and it jus ended 3 yrs ago..bt we started in 2003 nd ended in 2010

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    • PokieWoo

      Yea im the 20 year old and get do sick of people sayin im goin to jail and shit!

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  • gizmoid

    Every 20 years old lusts for a 16 year old, but it's rarely love. Do you actually remember the emotional chaos of 16? If so, you would be running for your life right now.

    I know you won't listen to this advice now, but I bet you'll remember it next time.

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  • jeslpayn

    Yes, I was 16 dating a 26 yr old. Still together and still in love 4 years later.

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    • fissionmailed

      Did the person meet big bubba yet?

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      • PokieWoo

        Lol no

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