Is it normal for a 22 year old guy to touch a 14 year old girl?
When I was 14 years old I had a friend that had an older brother who was 21-22 years old. It started out as him just complimenting me. Telling me I'm so beautiful. How much he wished I was older. ETC. Then one night when I was sleeping at my friends house he came home rather late, the rest of the house was asleep, and he asked me to watch a movie with him. I did and that's all that happened. The next time I slept over my friends house he came home late again and poked his head into my friends room where she was asleep and I was awake still and asked me to come hang out in his room. I did. (He was attractive and older and I felt special that he was showing interest in me.) So we were hanging out in his room listening to music and he was asking me questions like whether or not I was a virgin. (I was.) Whether or not I had given a blow job. (I had not.) Whether or not I had jerked a guy off. (I had.) After this convo went on for a little (he was wearing only boxers, no shirt) he showed me through his boxers the outline of his hard penis and told me to look at what had happened because I was so sexy. I was flattered. I let him kiss me and we made out for a little while. He kept stopping to tell me how he only wanted to kiss me and he loved kissing me. That was all we did. Until the next time I slept over. He called me in his room late at night once again and asked me if I shaved down there. I said "no." He asked if anyone has ever eaten me out before. I said "no." He said "Really? Will you let me do it?" I got nervous and shrugged saying "I don't know." He respnded with "Trust me, you will like it." and he undressed me from the waist down and licked and kissed my virgina until I guess he got bored. I didn't cum because I was too nervous. I remember feeling like I had to let him do it or he would think I was "un-cool". We never "got together" again. After that, I became rather promiscuous. I gave my first blow job and had sex within 2 months of that night. I also started shaving down there right away. I have so many questions now. Did I become sexually active sooner then I would have if that night hadn't happen? Is it normal for things like this to happen? Was I molested???? I watch the show - To Catch a Preditor - and these 22 year old guys are getting arrested for trying to have sex with 14-15 year olds. Is that guy a sexual preditor? I also now have fantasies about being rapped or molested by older men. Not sure If that is related to that night though. What does everyone think?