Is it normal for a 30 year old guy to date a 19 year old girl

Just want an outside opinion. How would you look at a 30 year old guy with a 19 year old girl. I look young, get carded all the time. but does that really matter? We love eachother and we make eachother happy. That said, how do you see the age difference?

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  • matches

    Go for it! age has nothing to do with love! If you love each other and put that at the center of your relationship then the age difference will not matter!

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  • DragonsPrayer

    Interesting, considering you and her are the exact same age difference that me and my partner are (I'm 22, he's 33)
    As long as there is love there, and she is over 18, I don't see the problem, me being 22 have a cutoff of 35, 40 if he looks good for his age and doesn't act "too mature" I mean, women mature faster or so they say, but I don't want to be with someone who acts more like a guardian than a lover.

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    • Devoria22

      true...Indeed... i believe that b/c im 22 and my boyfriend is 29? and even though we are 7 years apart we have this chemistry and love for one another and i think if it was the other way around i dont think i would be happy but being that we do mature faster then men i think we are made for each other..he lets me know right then about a problem he having and he open with his feelings? and i think it's a good thing...i agree with you

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  • hotchickie81

    Totally legal!

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    • Allistalla

      yeah its legal we can not say anything if we wanted you are not breaking the law .

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  • Jen118584

    Hey, if you love each other and she's mature enough for you, who cares what other people think? If you look young, most people probably don't think anything of it, and I'm sure the people who know you will understand your love for each other and support you.

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  • Alaxett

    Age is just a number. Go for it!

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  • Gabriell

    Usual.. it is.. Most of these relationships though don't last long and many times either party get hurt

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  • jethro

    Well when I was 19 I dated a 30 year old woman. She was hot too. There isn't anything illegal with it so I say go for it and don't look back.

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  • IDontAskMuch

    My husband is 14 years younger than me. I love him to death but like people say on here females mature quicker and sometimes it feels more like his my son not my husband by the way he acts and behaves. I do love him dearly though.

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  • x_caylie.babii_x

    This is normal!It's okay,don't let anyone tell you different! It's about your personataly,you guys are both happy,and it'll last. :)

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  • lily268

    I agree w/ Jen, its really nothing uncommon & besides strangers won't be able to tell the age difference and I think your family and friends will support your decision..... Although am curious 2 know what's your point of view on your situation?

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  • JandC

    hello i think its great , my m8s 16 and she went out wiv a 27 year old not the same but near enufff , she didnt feel used at all so as long as ur happy , fuck wt the other people say , and if u do break up so what life goes on just enjoy xx

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  • erocablok

    In india they marry 14 year olds so your ahead of the game.

    The old saying my father taught me "if there is grass on the field play ball". Those are some words to live by.

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  • sparrowfeed

    nah dude.
    that's weird. no offense.

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  • Schythl

    Age is nothing. Personality is everything.

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  • AlesanaSTARRx

    You're both happy, go for it! :)

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