Is it normal for a 17 year old girl to talk to 40 and 59 year old men

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A girl i know is talking to 2 guys who r older than her. 1 of them is 40 and the other is 59. She was talking to them since she was 12/13 and wanted to meet up with them like a few months since they werw talking. She never has met up with them coz she doesn't go out much and she's too nervous to meet them. They want to meet her to have sex with her.

She said that they're really nice to her and give her advice. She also kind of developed feelings for them and sent them nudes.

The reason why she started talking to them is coz she wants a father figure (she doesn't have a dad).

Sometimes her relationship with them is sexual but other times, they do act like father figures.

Some of our other friends say that they're paedophiles and that they're grooming her.

So, is it normal for her to talk to them?

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    So long as your "Friend" isn't going to meet them, there is no real harm is there.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Except that I reckon being groomed by two predators could well make her very vulnerable to any she might meet in real life

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      • Tempest-au
        7 years ago

        As the "grooming" started at 12/13, and she is now 17 and still not met either of these men, I'd say they failed.

        Not that I'm advocating the grooming of teenagers by older men, just saying that this 17 year old must have some sort of sense.

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  • twat_lickerr
    7 years ago

    Teen girls love older men as father figures and having a man around to talk to about life , males , sex wants and needs , their periods , school , homework , to do things with and go places , go out to eat at restaurants , especially if their biological father is not in the picture.
    They would love their Mom's to get a man in to both of their lives so she could be adopted and feel loved and wanted by a male , even if it is a Step Dad.
    He would treat her like it is his very own daughter.
    They also love the experience of older men because they know all about life and they dont want to put up with all of the drama and lies and immaturity that teen boys dish out to them.
    I would love to adopt a girl of any age to call my daughter.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I think your friend should seek out professional help instead of allowing creepy strangers to groom her, and sending them pictures that they'll be using for masturbatory purposes.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Or making money by putting them on child porn sites.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      She's flattered that they masturbate to her pictures. She has a bad self-image and she told me that they help her feel better about herself.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        That's really sad, it's very bad for her self respect and self esteem. I think your "friend" ought to cut all ties with these degenerates and seek out professional help. What kind of home life has your friend had in regards to her relationship with her parents especially her father?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          It is sad. All of us r really concerned about her.

          She has a mother but she doesn't feel close enough to her to tell her all her problems.

          Her father was arrested a few years ago. He was a paedophile.

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          • RoseIsabella
            7 years ago

            Poor thing, no wonder she's messed up so bad. Why don't you encourage her to seek out professional help?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              7 years ago

              She has counselling at her school once a week, for an hour. We think that she needs it more tho. She has a few other issues and sometimes she's suicidal. She said that the men help her

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Could be a very dangerous situation I would not advise her to continue.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    7 years ago

    I didn't even read the story. It's wrong. I'm 24 and I wouldn't mess with anyone under 18. A 40 year old accepting nudes from a teenaged girl and associating with her in a manner that any sane adult knows is not right is a pure sack of shit. Still a sack of shit if she was 18 but a law abiding sack of shit nonetheless. In reality, I'd say the same for myself.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    PS: Even if it's not illegal now she's the age she is, it was certainly illegal when it started

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    The friends who say these older men are pedophiles and are grooming her are 100% correct. If her mother doesn't know about this she needs to be told and the men should be reported to the police because what they are doing is illegal: well in Australia it is, I don't know about other countries.

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    • Tempest-au
      7 years ago

      Fairly sure the laws are similar in most countries Ellenna. Our laws are not that different to the US, UK, etc.

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  • klebo
    7 years ago

    I would really like to chat with her how can I get her kik or snapchat

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Her kik is horny_bi_girl_x

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      • klebo
        7 years ago

        can I get your kik?

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  • Curious-trans
    7 years ago

    Haha i remember when i was in her shoes ah good times good times, i can happily say i dont trully regret any of my descisions so far there all just memories now, let her make her own memories in peace

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  • Sara0303
    7 years ago

    No, she's being used

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  • klebo
    7 years ago

    Can I have her snapchat I will talk to her about this

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  • yanks1998
    7 years ago

    Did they send her pics of their cocks ?
    Were her nude pics just of her naked tits or were they nudes of her bald cunt and ass cheeks , ass crack spread eagle , asshole ?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Yes, they did send her pics of their cocks.

      She sent them tits and pussy. I think she sent them pics of her ass. She also told me that she stripped and masturbated for them on Skype.

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      • TWAT_LICKER
        7 years ago

        How old is she now ?
        How old was she the first time she ever saw a male boner 6 inch cock and balls in person for real ?
        How old was she the first time she ever had sex in her bald cunt and in her dirty asshole and in her mouth ?
        Is she old enough now to relocate to live with a man ?

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      • yanks1998
        7 years ago

        How old was she when she saw a cock for the first time ?
        What did she think about the male cock and balls the very first time she saw one ?
        Did she bend over and expose her cunt hole and asshole , seeing they are only 1 - 2 inches apart ?
        Have you seen the pics ?
        How old was she when she sent them ?
        Was her cunt hairless at the time ?

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        That's really messed up.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          Sometimes they told her to but other times she just did it to suprise them or asked them if they would like to see.

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          • RoseIsabella
            7 years ago

            That's not good.

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  • ref21
    7 years ago

    well I'm 18 and I did it too. idk why i like it. now I know that im not alone

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      She likes talking to them and she doesn't see anything wrong with talking to them sexually. Even though she said that she sees them as father figures.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Well, they're not "father figures" if they talk dirty to her and request nude pics.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          That's what we told her but she just doesn't want to hear it.

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          • RoseIsabella
            7 years ago

            Well, she needs professional help.

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    • Dad
      7 years ago

      I think its ok for teens to talk to older adults as well.
      (The point about the nudes is obviously breaking laws. But chatting is fine).
      I had an older girlfriend once who had a very young sister, we chatted for years, and now that she's 21 we are still close friends, I could message her right now if I wanted to, and both of us are happy and safe :)
      The present world has made people so jumpy now, when the irony is that there is no difference to the past, older guys STILL talked to younger girls 30 years ago, but these days that's counted as a monster!

      At what age is it for a guy, when they can NEVER ever have another conversation with an under 18yo? All these young guys here must be thinking, oh yeah can't talk to under 18yo ever again after 25 Lol, oh unless we have our own kids, BUT after that GONE!

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago

        Did you actually read the post? The young girl concerned was 12 or 13 when this started and the conversations have been sexual from the start.

        That's called GROOMING and it's WRONG.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Adults who groom adolescents have always been predatory creeps and monsters. The only difference now is that society is recognizing the truth.

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