Is it normal for a 17 year old boy to date 49 year old female?

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Hi everyone.

I just made this account as sugested by my cusin so hello. I am 18 in three days so I just want to say that so I dont get in trouble for the guidlines.

I have a crush on my tuter. Shes 49 yrs old and she is really funny. To me it is important to have hapiness with someone who makes you smile and laugh as much as possable. I think she's so cute and funny and I like her deep voice and her eyes are really pretty. She is so much more experenced then me and knows so much so I am nervous to ask her but I want to see if she likes me to.

Is it normal to ask an older woman if she likes you to? Ive never had a girlfriend before but I think she is honestly the one. I think she likes me to to be honest because she makes me laugh on purpose and I think thats how shes trieng to flirt with me and signel me without telling me.

She isnt married anymore and she divorced two times. I know this because my mom knows her because she used to be my moms babysitter when my mom was little. My mom is actually younger then her and is 36 so I dont know how my mom will feel if i tell her or if this feeling is normal. I know I am mature enough to handel an older woman because i am almost 20.

Is it normal feeling and normal to tell her? thank you so much.

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  • k10101010101010101010
    9 years ago

    she must be a lousy tutor if you still can't spell worth a shit.

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    You are too young to know how you really feel and to know if shes really flirting. I'll bet anything that shes just a nice person that likes to laugh. Dont take it as anything else.

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    • thr
      9 years ago

      How can he be too young to know how he, himself, really feels right now?

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      • mountain-man82
        9 years ago

        Because all young people think they are truly in love, when its usually just lust. Hes even siad that hes never had a girlfriend. He needs to get out there and experience life before trying to settle one person, let alone someone that old, meaning shes lived life, knows what true love is and what she wants out of life.

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    not good

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  • Lonely2
    9 years ago

    Dont worry about the whole is she the one stuff...just realize that for right now you like her and want to spend more time with her and see if she wants to spend time with you..each part of a relationship is special...that whole new feeling etx...thats special too

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  • ilovetoiletrolls
    9 years ago

    I think not. I'm sorry but the maturity levels are hugely different and a male doesn't even mature until he's well into his 20s and by that time, she'll be well into her 50s. Sure, age means nothing, generally but when it's such a huge gap, it definitely is best to leave it be. You said she's even older than your Mother and that to me, is a big no-no.

    You're young, you'll have so many crushes like this until you get older. You can't say she's the one for sure as you haven't experienced much yet.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I get what you mean by this. I just feel she likes me as more then a student.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Wait until you are at least an legal adult. Otherwise, you could get her into so much legal trouble. Please, wait.

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