Is it normal for 7 year olds to have sexual fantasies about adults?

I am just wondering if you all think it's normal for a 7 year old to have sexual fantasies about adults? I remember fantasizing about having sexual intercourse with the school soccer coach, and I'm not sure why. I don't have any sexually traumatic memories from that time, but I do remember masturbating while imagining having sex with him. I feel so gross about it.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I didn't even know what sex was at seven. It's weird that you knew about it at seven.

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  • Nickvey

    i think you were abused and block out the memories , i know i blocked out homosexual experiences with children when i was a child. i didnt ever recall them for 40 years.

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  • I feel dirty as hell just reading this.

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  • dickaddict08

    Well my cousin molested me when I was 7 and he was 16 he knew better but he shoved his €ock in my mouth and I loved it after that I’ve been sucking D since and sooooo many strait, bi, gay, etc dudes think I’m amazing at it. They brag about it to each other when there’s two at once I’m sucking haha so to me it’s normal as fuck ;)

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    • Jerryjerry

      Ur the shit

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  • Nickvey

    i think children that are sexually abused by adults do seek out sex with other adults. is that a fantasy ? no they confuse sex with attention they want and need as children.

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  • BiDaddysGirl

    I started when I was 6 and so did my boyfriend and girlfriends and my sister

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  • TimeWizard

    No that isn't normal at all.

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  • jews4pinapplepizza

    Not sure about masturbating but fantasizing seems normal to me.

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  • Boojum

    How did you know about the mechanics of sex at the age of seven?

    Even some infants masturbate, but that's just about doing something that feels good. Very young children shouldn't be able to make the connection between what it feels good to do themselves, and the possibility of another person being involved in that.

    I'm sure that understanding comes to kids at different ages, but seven seems pretty young to me, and I think Nickvey makes a valid point about memories possibly being blocked.

    Leaving aside the question of how you knew about sex when you were seven, I think still being upset about the thoughts you then had and what you did to yourself is being very hard on yourself.

    Almost everyone can remember doing inappropriate, weird or just totally fucked-up things when they were very young. Anyone who believes they behaved and thought like a miniature adult when they were a child is deluding themselves. Seven year-old kids are very much a work in progress, and their understanding of the world and themselves is extremely limited. That's one of the reasons the law says seven year-old kids aren't able to consent to sex.

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  • rayb12

    I was getting physically aroused by depictions of female violence towards males at ages much younger than that

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    That's way too young, not normal. I first learned what masturbation was when I was 11.

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