Is it normal for 40 year old to precum so much?

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I have been with my wife for more than 20 years, and I very much still find her attractive. Once in awhile, I will massage her while she is nude on a massage table. Even if we are having normal conversation while this is happening, and my mind is thinking about something neutral (in a sexual sense), and even if I am not getting physically hard, I notice that I ooze precum to the point that it will drip several times on the floor if I weren't to catch it. I usually try to cover this up as it seems a bit awkward and her eyes are closed. In the moment, I'm not fantasizing about anything, just focused on the moment and doing a good job massaging her body.

In other arenas, if she is say jerking me off or we are having sex, I don't notice a similar amount of precum, though there will be some sometimes.

I'm wondering if it is normal to experience significant precum in these types of situations even if you are not much thinking about sex and also not physically hard?

Thanks for your insight and advice on this!!!

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  • Columbusbiguy
    4 years ago

    Ive read a lot on precum and have the understanding thats its the bodies wsy of "cleaning out the tubes" to make way for the ejaculate. Since you are getting turned on your body is starting to work without you having to tell it to. The level of precum varies for everyone. I started researching because i dont express any until right before i actually come. I have to edge myself and stop to actually get some, and then its not very much. So yea, you are normal for you.

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Yeah I precum the most doing anal shit its pretty weird. But a similar amount as you it sounds like so I'd say normal.

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    Wieners are finicky things.

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