Is it normal feel like you don't matter when girlfriend is pregnant?
My girlfriend and I are pregnant with our first. She has three from a previous marriage and I have one from a previous marriage. We are excited to have one together. But I feel like i don't matter at all. I am the only one who works she is "bed ridden" because of nausea she hasn't gotten out of bed for 3 weeks. She loosing lots of weight and I worry a lot about her health she can't keep down water even. But i get home i have to dishes feed 4 kids feed her do laundry police the children do homework with the kids tend to her every need. I'm stretched so thin. All of her attention and love goes to the kids they lay in bed with her not me. She hugs and kisses them i get none. I am working 50 hours at work and then my job doesn't end when I get home. And what do i have to show for it kids yelling and screaming girlfriend dying from nausea and malnutrition. Any time i have a PTSD episode from my time in the desert all she says is let it go. I don't have time for you. Im lost and so alone. I feel like I don't matter at all. I just want to hold her when I sleep at least or for her want to kiss me. Does she just not love me anymore? Is this normal way to feel?