Is it normal feel a certain something when being with someone

So, there's me and this girl. We don't talk much, don't hang out much (one time) but I can't help but feeling something when being with her. I know I'm in love with her, but this time it's just different. The feeling can only be described as strange, peaceful and warm, it's a feeling that erases my entire depression that I've been in for a year and she's the only one that can make me feel this way just by being with me. But when I'm alone, the depressive feeling comes back and I'm my old self again. is it normal to think that she's "the one"?

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Based on 38 votes (29 yes)
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  • gummy_jr

    Yeah

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  • Royalburden

    I don't really see the point of this post. You already know from media and from life that being in love is normal. It isn't even a question.

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  • DubstepismyMJ

    I think your just lonely tbh. I wouldnt say the one just yet, it doesnt look like you know her too well. But you seem to really like her thats for sure.

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    • WeSeeNoChanges

      Hm, you might be right. But the fact that I do not know her too well yet, is the point. It's strange for me to have this feeling without truly knowing someone.

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      • DubstepismyMJ

        Im happy for you. I had a person like that 3 years ago. Im usually a shy person back then, but my feelings were so intense for her it... It didnt matter how afraid i was, or how much of a fool i may make of myself, all i knew is the feelings i had for her doesnt come very often, and probably quite rare. That if i wanted to be in this girl's life, i had to be the best me, no better than the best me i could have been. This one girl... truly brought the best in me. I played my cards right, we dated for a short while.

        But It wasnt the right timing for either of us so it didnt work out. It wasnt a crash and burn, but a peaceful one. I was sad of course. But i gave it one hell of a try. I dont regret it.
        even now i still think about her time to time though. Im thinking about reconnecting with her even if its just friends. Maybe we were ment to be bestfriends maybe even lovers, who knows. I would be happy with either one

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  • ifonlyuknew247

    If you depend on other people for your happiness, and cannot get it from within yourself somewhere, you are going to be depressed again inevitably.

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    • WeSeeNoChanges

      It's not like I depend on others for my happiness, I never said that. It's like, she makes me feel "extra" good, it's hard to describe.

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy

    did you ever eat nachos together? just curious...

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    • dirtybirdy

      Dats nacho bizniss!!!

      I like irish nachos. Just sayin...

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      • dickwashington

        what are irish nachos?

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        • dirtybirdy

          They are delicious. You use thinly sliced fried potatoes (not potato chips) instead of tortilla chips.

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          • kingofcarrotflowers

            :0

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          • RoseIsabella

            Super Mr. Potato Head!

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            • dirtybirdy

              Mmhmm that's right! ;p

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  • MaxCapacity2121

    Being in love is more than just a feeling.. it seems like you're in the puppy love stage considering you hung out with her once and barely talk..

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    • WeSeeNoChanges

      You can't tell others that they don't feel love for someone. If anyone feels and says that he or she's in love, than that person will be probably right.

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