Is it normal: extra horny after a break up?

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I've had several boyfriends, but only ever had sex with my most recent one. I was never very eager for sex. . . but now that we've broken up (it was pretty messy) I find myself wanting to hook up with a lot of boys. I worry that I'm going to become a slut, and I don't want that. Is it normal to be extra horny having just gotten out of a relationship? Will it pass?

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  • Paul
    13 years ago

    No, you won't become a slut, but at least you will stop being a nun.

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  • beerlover123
    13 years ago

    From what I've observed about girls it seems that before they have sex they aren't that horny but then once the seal is broken and they know what sex feels like they get extremely horny. I mean I'm a guy but I can't say for sure but I've noticed this pretty consistently. And yeah... Don't become a slut lol sluts are dirty.

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  • scandinavia
    13 years ago

    it's normal to feel this way but believe me you wont become a slut!!...the thing is after a break up you start missing things that were in a relationship so yes it could be easy to find a rebound but I suggest you don't...you sound like a person who value sex in a decent way so let it stay that way :)

    I have had this feeling to but I never act upon it! use your fingers lol...but I must admit after you once go without it for a year you might feel the itch lol

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  • MESOMIKE
    13 years ago

    Sounds like rebound. Just be careful

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    you are a slut ;)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ^ This

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  • tjones925
    13 years ago

    I guess it's normal because you don't like to be tied down and the feeling of being free makes you want to hook up with other guys.. Just be safe and use a condom.

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  • Seahorsesforeva
    4 years ago

    Why dont you wanr to "be a slut"? Whats wrong with having safe and consensual sex with multiple partners? That word is a pejorative used by society to oppress and shame women for partaking in the most natural thing imaginable. Fuck that, people are prudes. Embrace your inner slut and normalize sex and free the female body and spirit. This is a feminist issue and the stigma needs to die.

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  • kekkiumai
    12 years ago

    Can I have yo numbah??

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  • Cookies&Cream
    13 years ago

    Its normal, you discovered something new you liked and now that you dont have it you need/ crave it. You just need to have self control and to ease your desire & relieve tension you should masturbate. Doesnt mean you have to be a slut.

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  • badboy4u247
    13 years ago

    sounds like you had a great time sexually with him now hes gone and u want more of the same..doesn't mean ur a slut..u just enjoy sex..

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  • Ghebulon
    13 years ago

    As a guy, it's good to have sex with a lot of girls. This make's one a master key.

    As a girl, it's ba to have sex with a lot of guys, because this makes you a bad lock.

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