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I've really liked this guy for a while, and i'm pretty sure he liked me back. But everytime i see hime lately, for some odd reason, i feel like vomiting. I've never been nervous around him before and normally i have a really strong stomach....i'm so lost.
Whoa, wait. I'm not saying you said that..that sounds ugly. Just making jokes about you calling me a guy. Awkwarrrrrd.
DAMN the first guy beat me to it and then the second guy beat me to say damn beat me to it I JUST CANT WIN :'(
wow. i have this to... except i dont like the guy so i feel really bad. he has it really bad for me and hes so nice so im stuck :'(
unlike tht extremely long comment there u have fallen for him thts it ask him out for heavens sake!
It's either he did something to make you have this reaction,something you know but don't wanna talk about,for example something that sexually grossed you out,or he said something, one thing is sure,
your feelings cannot have changed without some kind of triggering event.I suggest you search in your mind for whatever this event is,and learn to accept whatever it is suddenly grossing you out.If you value his friendship.
It might be a little stupid apparently not important thing catching your attention even if you aren't fully aware of it.For example,for some people seeing residues of food behind another person's teeth,might cause this kind of reaction.Or something he said about a particular topic,and that you didn't like,but lied about it.Or something you intuited about him and kind of got stuck in your brains. Whatever emotion you were feeling while you thought about a judgment,about a person,will kind of stick,based on the importance you given to that particular thought,and be evoked as soon as you find yourself in front of that person.Or you are just disgusted of yourself for thinking something like that about him.
Or you are disgusted by the situation you and him are happening to live.
Or you are just pregnant.Or you have been thinking about something extremely kinky and nasty you wanned to do with him,probably something sexual,but once the chance to do it actually arises,for real,you get grossed out.
Or you just noticed a particular way of doing things,interacting with other people,that you reconsidered your opinion about him then forgot.Or you know there is something bad about the guy that you should be remembering but you can't and that makes you wanna puke.Or you got drunk with him,felt sick,he bought the beers,so now you associate the sick feeling to his presence as a result of a post traumatic neurotic background cognitive process.
Or,screw this,you are grossing me out.
Or his attitude slightly changed,you noticed that,thus making you enjoy less his company to the extent of just wanting to get as far away from him as possible.
Note:One of those possibilities doesn't necessarily exclude the other.
Or you are afraid of being seen with him.
Or you should stop filling your belly with junk food before meeting him.Or the guy didn't shower and the smell of his armpits got you grossed out.Or He his sick,has got a wound or a scar and since you have been experiencing some pain yourself,suddenly the thought of you getting hurt or sick like he is makes you wanna puke.And you wanna get away from him to get rid of the feeling hoping it will take the pain away as well.Or he caused you some pain.. offended you or humiliated you publicly,and the list goes on and on and on...
How do I know this stuff?I'm paranoid.