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Hey, I'm 19, live on my own with my girlfriend and our two month old baby, and I toke up probably every night. After everythings all settled down of course. And it's not alot, maybe a g a night. Is this normal? Do I have a drug problem?
I think you know the that this is not normal behavior if you were alone and had no responsibility i.e a BABY you could do whatever you like smoke all the weed in the world but you NEED a clear mind when you're around an infant not to mention your child could be take away by CPS god forbid someone snitched on you
weed can be a great help for stresses...stop thinking its all ''bad'' and such. it all depends on what you do with it. It actualy is a better medecine against stress, headaches and many many more things than all others sold at the drugstore. I only WISH my father was on weed... he was so hard on me. and like i said : it all depends on what you do with it. btw funny fact : you can OD on tylenol...but cant OD on weed. Oh and yah, their gona replace ritalin with weed pills. Less dangerous and more effective it seems...
Yeah I would care if there wasn't a baby around. Your gunna keep on doing it and yur kid is gunna grow up with it and your gunna fuck yur kid up.
Think of it like this: children repeat their parents actions no matter how much they hate them or the action. Therefore, how would you feel with your kid doing drugs?
As long as ALL of your responsibilities are taken care of, I don't see a problem with it. My brother and his wife do it that way - well he has a toke and she has a beer, then the go to bed, and they're happy.
However, if your girlfriend has a problem with it, then you too have a problem with it. Ask her if there's any way you can come to a reasonable compromise. For example, if she wants to spend time with the sober you, then maybe a few nights a week you could abstain, but on your nights to toke, she would have to tolerate it. Hopefully, she doesn't want you to stop altogether; that would be rough!
Something else you may want to ponder: If you live in the United States and depending on what state you live in, you could be facing a prison sentence if you were to be caught with the stuff. Since you have a child now, you may want to consider the repercussions of your choices on the baby's future. If you live in Canada, like me, all the power to you.
every night, with a baby? mmmmmm.............try going without, see how you do. if you can't go without, then you do have a problem.