Is it normal different relationship situation?

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okay this is kind of a long story so I'll try to be brief. this guy and I went to middle and a little bit of high school together but we never talked. last year he added me on facebook and over summer we chatted a little before starting to text. he would text me every now and then but I wouldn't really think twice about it. I didn't really wanna talk to him. then we started talking more and i didn't have a guy in my life at the time so it gave me someone to talk to. then out of nowhere we were talking all day everyday. then he started telling me
how he liked me, but I did not feel the same way. I just liked having someone to talk to. then one night we talked on the phone for 4 hours and after that I really really liked him. we continue to talk all day everyday and I like him A LOT. there's a problem though, he's going to military school a state away...I feel so confused. I like him so much. I have honestly never felt this way about anyone. but this, in a word: SUCKS. so bad! it's horrible and it's awful and I just wish I could see him everyday but I can't. I'm a senior in high school so I don't wanna feel like I'm wasting it. I also am afraid I could be wasting my time. at the same time, I'm in too deep. I can't just stop talking to him. he is literally ALL I think about.

it's just a horrible situation and I need help. is it normal to want to do this?

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Based on 24 votes (18 yes)
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  • jpl714
    11 years ago

    Do whatever your tells you to do....

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    If you're meant to be together long term you will be. Don't try to cram this relationship into one year. Good relationships take a while to establish and then can last forever.

    Good luck.

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  • tryanything
    12 years ago

    I might seem difficult but since your relationship has developed over time, it probably has a lot more going for it than one of simple infatuation.
    I have to add that if you are measuring it against wasting your senior year, maybe you are not really ready for that kind of commitment. That's Okay, but you should know what you really want.
    No matter what you choose, you will be missing out on everything you dismiss. Think it through carefully first - then follow your heart.

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  • pem24
    12 years ago

    I wouldn't say that the situation is horrible. Remember, there are LDRs couples that can endure even oceans apart.

    You've just fallen in-love with him. Since you've recently had this deep feeling into him, the phase of communication you're having right now is like on a honeymoon stage.

    Before anything else, have you validated your feelings for him? If you really want him, you have to take the risk.

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    Call 1-800-BONE-HER
    They'll help ya out.

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