Is it normal caught my young son masturbating with a friend of his?

My 11 year old son had a friend around for a sleep over. I got up during night and saw then both pants down masturbating. Is this normal behavior for that age? They didn't see me but should I say something? Bit worried

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  • confusedP

    Dont say anything, it will embarrass him. its completely normal and just a phase.

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  • nobodyspecial

    Most boys will at some point masturbate with a friend

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  • bartleby

    Of course it's normal. Didn't you ever masturbate with buddies when you were a kid? I did. We would play strip poker and masturbate. It was fun. I only did that when I was prepubescent, like I assume your 11-year-old son is. I did jerk off with my cousin once when I was old enough to ejaculate. I enjoyed it but he was uncomfortable so we didn't do it again.

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  • THTyler

    Im' 11 and I masturbate with my buddy like them, almost every kid does it. Don't talk to them or parents about it. Trust me is VERY embarrassing!

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  • Anonny

    yeah they are just curious to see if everything on them is in working order and the only way to do so is to look around at others. I mean if they were masturbating TO each other then he might be gay. But if it was just to porn then it's nothing to worry about.

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    • VioletTrees

      Even if he is gay, though, that's nothing to worry about, too.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    The fact you caught him in the act just may curb it for a while.

    Pull him aside for a daddy-son conversation about not letting him have friends overnight if they're going to be jerking off... and you'll probably really embarrass him into behaving.

    Especially if you phone up the friend's father too.

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  • Shackleford96

    Was she a girl? Either way, it's pretty normal. From my experience, kids generally experiment.

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