Is it normal can't decide who to be with?

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My ex fiance or the girl I've been with now a year.

I broke up with my fiance because she had PTSD because she was involved in a terrible event right before we got together. I have bad anxiety so you get the idea. I couldn't support her anymore and couldn't ask her to support me. But I did love her and she was actually perfect.

Been with a new girl for a year. She's great but honestly I do miss my ex a lot. She was great too and we had a whole lot more in common. The girl I'm with now doesn't have anything in common with me and some of her beliefs don't align with mine but she's fun to be with and has so much energy and is a happy person which my ex wasn't often because of ptsd but I keep thinking about her.

I still haven't told my new girl I love her because I said I can't throw that word out there...but also because I'm not sure. When I was with my fiance I was certain she was the one, still to this day, I see her as perfect, I said I loved her within months and we had a great relationship until PTSD and anxiety caught up with us.

I don't know if it's normal to feel like this. I found out through a mutual friend my ex fiance doesn't have PTSD anymore and I see photos of her and she seems happy and healthy now.

Help is it normal?

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    You could contact her and see if there is a possibility of reconnecting but be ready for the real possibility of being rejected.

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  • Notderanged
    5 years ago

    Very normal, but it's too late. She's happy now, without you.

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