Is it normal boyfriend shows no interest?

i really love to sing. it's kinda passion, and many people tell me i have talent. except my boyfriend, who doesn't even want to hear my covers. he says he's just don't interested in and that he might get jealous. is it normal? this means so much to me, and he's just so ignorant about it.

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  • tommytalker

    Is it possible your not really that good a singer and he is the only honest one??? When people think they are a good singer its hard to tell them they arent and most of us lie to avoid hurting our friends.

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  • I can understand that he might not be interested in your singing but he could atleast support you, encourage you to continue. I find it sad that he isn't even showing some sort of support to something that means a lot to you.

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  • Twarrior

    It's because he is banger a better singer than you. He means he will get jealous if you out shine his real gf.

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  • schtopp

    As a musician, I have to say...it's weird to hear people I know sing. Sometimes very, very annoying, even if they're "good". I just hate to hear people try so hard, you know what I mean? Perhaps he feels the same.

    Or maybe he just doesn't care for the type of music you sing.

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  • Pearsonz

    He may think you're bad and be embarrassed. Although if you've had people say you're good whats wrong with him taking a listen

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  • mumbum

    He has serious issues... And i can guarantee this is just the tip of the iceberg with this guy. Healthy relationships don't cause the degree of confusion that you are experiencing right now. Find a guy who actually is interested. Girls who can sing are really sexy and really hot...he sounds like an immature "me, me, me" type of guy.. Painful!! Why waste your time!

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  • crissyabear

    You probably aren't as good of a singer as everyone tells you that you are. I know a girl like that. She thinks she can sing good goes to karaoke all the time. Everyone tells her she is good because it is entertaining to watch her do karaoke sounding horrible but thinking she is awesome. Yeah I know it's kind of mean but not as mean as telling her she sucks and crushing her dreams.

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    • colourmoon

      i really do accept critics and i'm not sure of myself. but he couldn't even know if i'm good or not, because he's never heard me sing. i don't want to hear a compliment from him, but his honest oponion.

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  • mumbum

    What is he jealous about? That you can sing and he can't? If that is the case ditch his arse! That is worse than just not being interested!

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  • Ldizzy1234

    You could have a very well voice, but if you're the type who sings nonstop all day, he might be the type of guy who's just trying to say that it gets annoying after a while. You could have the most beautiful voice in the world, but sometimes people(some ppl) just get sick of hearing it so much. I probably wouldn't mind, but maybe he does. Don't feel offended if that really is his reason. But definitely get down to the bottom of it. Be straight with him. Ask him why he isn't supporting you, and tell him to give his real answer. And if he says again that he'll be jealous, say, "why?".

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    • colourmoon

      i actually don't sing at all if he's with me :/ and you know i know he get jealous very fast but come on i'm his girlfriend..

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  • Wow what a boyfriend. I heard about a dude who "loved and CARED" for his girl, but when I asked him what she was passionate about, he couldn't answer me. So much for caring and loving, eh? It was like, you don't even know her! Just a story ;)

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