Is it normal being spanked bare bottom with a belt?

I'm 30 y/o woman and I'm not sure if the way I was disciplined as a kid would be considered abuse or if it's still considered acceptable spanking.

I was a strong-willed kid & got into trouble all the time, & also was raised by a young single mother. She'd always warn me first, but if I messed up again, it was over her knee.

Usually I got it with the belt & always bare bottom over her knee in her bedroom. Depending on what I did I'd get anywhere from 10 whacks to dozens more. It was hard enough to where I was crying & red the next day, but not so hard to leave long lasting marks.

She always talked to me about why I'd be getting spanked & hugged me after. The spankings stopped when I was around 13.

Would this be considered abuse or is it normal discipline?

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  • Ellenna

    That was abuse, no doubt about it

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  • Tempest-au

    Was it considered abuse at the time, no. Is it considered abuse now, yes. Do I consider it abuse, maybe.

    Sorry to be so vague, but to me the whole corporal punishment thing is a grey area. I had a step-father that would beat the shit out of me for the most trivial things, which was abuse. I also got caned at school for doing some stupid stuff too, which in hindsight was justified.

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  • dick912

    My wife was spanked OTK at least once a week until she was 21 by her dad. She was strong willed and still is. She didn't have a mom so dad had to do all of the spanking. He had her go nude all of the time when they were at home so all of her spankings were on the bare butt.

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    • yea I prob got it around once or twice a week.

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      • dick912

        For being bad?

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    • Dallas8

      I'm sure when he spanked her over his knee with her being nude 24 / 7 / 365 , you can bet that with her ass cheeks and ass crack staring him in the face , he spread her legs apart when he spanked her 2 ass cheeks that he stuck his fingers in her bald cunt and asshole and licked his fingers and spread her cum , pee , shit on her tits and sucked them.

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      • dick912

        He did some of that to her. He played with her tits and p*ssy. He had her play with him a lot. Can supply details if requested.

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