Is it normal being a girl, but wanting to be a guy?

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So here you have it: I am a slightly abnormal girl, and I've thought, ever since puberty that I wanted to be a guy. One of the reasons is that guys are more muscular, so they are are able to run faster and jump higher. Also I slightly have a social handicap. As a boy if you act a bit strange, you are just the strange one, or the 'monkey', as a girl, it's not accepted. Also if boys fight, people don't think it too strange because it's hormones. Don't even think about getting in a fight as a girl, then you're dangerous and scary and abnormal. Just to make things clear: I'm not saying I think boys are allowed to fight and don't get punished, I'm saying they don't get the social shunning, at least not as much as girls do. So anyway: what do YOU think?

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  • CDmale4fem
    12 years ago

    I guess I have a bad case of boob envy then,,,

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Sounds like for the most part you want to be a guy because society would then accept your personality type. But don't worry about that!! You sound like you might just be a tomboy, and that's totally common and acceptable. Be yourself and you will attract friends who like the kind of person you are. "If you don't like me remember, its mind over matter; I don't mind and you don't matter!" - Dr. Suess =D

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  • rawr123451
    12 years ago

    Well do you envy the fact that they don't get in trouble for things? Or do you, u know, want to screw women?

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  • LostReciever
    12 years ago

    There are too many double standards as a woman. We deal with more shit and we're still seen as weaker. No, it's normal to not want to fall into your "perscribed" gender role. Be yourself. Those who matter don't mind and those who matter don't mind.
    (Being a girl sucks.)

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  • ihateyoujk
    12 years ago

    im a guy and i love it i wouldnt have it any other way.

    but i do know alot of my friends (girls) who are jealous of all the priviliges of being a guy, but they dont want to be one

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I think that you think too much about what people think of you. You can do whatever you like and no you won't be crazy because you're a girl. That's just silly. Anyways that's my opinion.

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    • Tisgranum
      12 years ago

      I agree, the grass is always greener on the other side. Boys can't do anything they want to without repercussion either.

      I think you need to assume yourself OP. Who cares what people think. After all, you can only have people like you if you are being you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Classic penis envey

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  • HecateAlVanne
    12 years ago

    I feel the same. I LOVE to fight, but get shunned for it. Im questions on why I dont wear make-up and why I hang with guys. Another plus for being a guy, NO PERIOD!

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    It's called penis envy. Seriously. Totally normal.

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  • Nolan3200
    12 years ago

    I hate being a guy. We're hairy and disgusting. I'd say I want to be a woman, but I couldn't be bothered with periods... So really... I just hate being human...

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    • iwantthebest
      11 years ago

      i feel really bad for you! i love my life! (i am female)^

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  • SailorGirlApril
    12 years ago

    Not normal. BTW I hate when people get sex changes. They are sick in the head.

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  • sleepingbeauty
    12 years ago

    You are as bad as everyone you are having a grumble about, you have managed to put more assumptions in that one small post than a heap of posts on the home page!

    I'm sorry to sound hard, but get over yourself. Find your own place in society and quit worrying about whether the neighbours or johnny down the road has it better than you!

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  • Sanri-0-
    6 years ago

    I'd rather be a girl. 💯% normal.

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  • EccentricWeird
    10 years ago

    Just because you shove feathers up your butt doesn't mean you're a goddamn chicken.

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  • iwantthebest
    11 years ago

    i am a girl and sometimes i think boys have it is easier but sometimes i think they dont. i would say like 50/50 your OK

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  • Kollian
    12 years ago

    It seems that what your craving isn't to be a guy really, but to be able to act however you normal would without having to worry about judgement. Everyone wants this. People are too quick judge other people. It's stupid.

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  • Bball1985
    12 years ago

    I've always wanted to be a guy too I'm a total tomboy and everything thinks I'm weird for it but I don't mind I just hang out with the guys and foret bout the stupid people

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  • UliNalaMansae
    12 years ago

    transgender or just the whole social acception?

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  • Killerkabbages.
    12 years ago

    I am the same. I wanted to be a guy, since... Uh... I don't know. But, I know it's not normal.

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  • phuckejiu
    12 years ago

    Having a penis is great you can stand up to pee and you pee in bottles and give it to girls doggy style

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  • timebobbu
    12 years ago

    Sure all guys have it easy. this gender thing is obviously just an excuse for your failures.

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