Is it normal be attracted to your cousin

I don't think you are trying hard enough. Get some binocs and keep an eye on her at night as well.

I was in love with my cousin many years ago. bad bad memories. you should cut all contact with her. before your feelings grow and make things harder than it should be.

also I learned this the hard way:
if you keep contacting girls like that, they will think you have nothing better to do, and that is very unattractive. don't make her the center of your life. girls don't like that. you want to have your own life sorted and just "share" it with the girl you like. if she likes your "life" then she will "join" your "life"

shut up Marbles u dickwad

I loved my cousin since he was a boy when I grew up I still loved him but at the shower I saw my stomach getting bigger!!! Is it normal?!

stalker......

wtf. if a girl cousin likes a boy,its ok.But if a boy cousin likes the girl,its rude and weird.

How do you know my cousin?

It is normal to have a crush on anyone I think, but the stalking thing is not. Yes I feel like what your doing, leaving a ton of messaging, following her, texting, it's a little obsessive. However when I was a teenager, I used to have a crush on my ( same gender ) cousin. I thought he was ridiculously cute, and had my thoughts and what not, but I never dared tell him. Even if I was a female, I would never have told him, nor went to the extent you have. I hate to break it to you man, but they are feelings. Feelings happen to EVERYONE. You can't act on all feelings. It just gets you into huge trouble. She's your cousin, respect that. I had my feelings, and I got over them. I still think he's cute, but I'm not ever going to make him uncomfotable and ruin my relationship as a cousin over past infatuation. You will get over it, trust me.

Pretty much normal. I've had this same feeling with one of my cousins too. Although I don't do the things you have done. Calm down and talk to her properly when you're ready. Give her the space she wants.

You're probably scaring the shit out of her. You should back off-apologize to her for your harassing behavior. She most likely doesn't have the same feelings for you that you do for her.

Just give it up and find another non-related girl. Politely let your cousin know you're open to being her friend or whatever she likes and don't message her more than once every 3 or 4 months.

If she's interested, then she'll let you know. If a woman doesn't feel safe around you because of your strange behaviour, how could you expect her to like you?

I won't say it's a bad thing. However, what you are doing is much like stalking. If you've texted, called and left tons of messages, and she has not replied, she probably knows, and has no interest in dating you. Or, she could have, and your scaring the daylights out of her.

Slack off on your stalking image. Send one or two text messages a day. Don't constantly harass her. If she doesn't reply, then it's time for you to move on. I'd hate to be known as the guy who's cousin has a restraining order against him.

I have had a sexual relationship with a cousin, and that was the best sex I ever had. She was a one of a kind, and if the chance arose to do it again, I would be naked faster than a speeding bullet!

Those are extremely wierd tendencies and very stalkerish however it is normal to be attracted to your cousin as she may be a pretty girl but it is not normal to be completely in love and to do all of the things that you are doing.