Is it normal anorexia?

I want to be anorexic. I am currently 5'4" and weigh 145 lbs. My boyfriend thinks I'm too thick and should weigh 115lbs. He said that the man should be bigger then the woman. He weighs 135 lbs. He sorta gave me a complex and now I want to lose weight. By trying out anorexia. I don't want to be fat anymore:( and I want to make my boyfriend happy. And I want to look good and be skinny:) I'm also going to try hcg diet. Is this normal?

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  • chezycheze

    You shouldn't try to lose weight to look better for your boyfriend. If you want to lose weight, you should do it for yourself or because of anothers concern about your health. In my opinion, its much healthier to be a lil over weight than anorexic. Anyways, if you really do decide that you want to loose weight, then you should do it the healthy way, correctly adjust your diet and exercise habits.

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  • lc1988

    anorexia is not normal but i suppose you know that. Find someone who loves you for you and lose weight the healthy way. Ever heard of a gym..exercise..healthy diet? Any of these ringing a bell?

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  • person2716

    Agree^ but also your boyfriend only 135 that's usually not normal for a guy so he should GAIN weight and shouldn't be mean to you about yours you are who you are!!

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  • sandinmyambergerbuns

    first of all it sounds like to me your biggest problem is your boyfriend! a boyfriend should love the way you are and no boy should EVER, EVER mention anything about a girls weight unless it is a serious threat to her overall health and yours isnt. Dont change yourself to please a boy; change the boy! however, if you want to lose weight to become healthier do it for yourself. Do it the healthy way; eat right, exercise, and do it at a reasonable rate. Honestly i am about the same size as you are and i decided to get healthier. its not about the number on the scale; its about becoming a healthier you!

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  • No man is worth your health. Shows how much you respect and care about yourself.

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  • I am anorexic. But not by choice anymore trust me anorexia is deadly and not something I want

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  • firefly88

    U dont need to b anorexic to lose weight. Just completely change your lifestyle and diet. Quit eating all that disgusting shit like deep fried crap

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  • VirtualMannequin

    HE can go fuck himself. Dump that deadweight. You don't need a man who tells you what you "should" look like or do. If you are seriously thinking about an anorexic lifestyle, please contact a therapist. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.

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  • Baalin911

    If your man thinks "A man should be bigger than a woman" his head probably isn't on correctly... you can't judge a woman for being (I don't remember exactly) on or a little under/over the "Average" weight area... doesn't make you fat...

    tell him to not be a dick about body weight... unless you're like morbidly obese or underweight and you could die

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  • Aroura77

    A) He's a skinny little F***er, tell him he should bulk up, lazy bastard
    B) You can't 'try anorexia', it's a mental disease, just like you can't 'try bi-polar disorder' But you can starve yourself...but DON'T.
    C) Why is his opinion more important that your health? :( Starving yourself to get him back for saying that is ignoring how important your body is for, you know, being alive.
    Don't do it, that's dumb.

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    • Aroura77

      Although that said, you are right on the edge of the normal healthy weight range for your height. If you wanna do yourself a favor literally just try eating healthily, not minding about not eating healthily sometimes, and go do some exercise. Don't take it to the extreme, do easy things consistently, and you'll probably lose weight as a side effect anyway.

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      • Aroura77

        oh, and btw 115 lbs is just under a healthy weight for a Caucasian woman of your height.

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  • Verstehen

    Your boyfriend is a scrawny little bitch. lol I'd break him in two.

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  • random321123

    Please please please don't become anorexic...I've struggled with anorexia for years. It's made me sick and absolutely miserable on several occasions. Trust me, it is NOT worth it.

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  • Saveme

    135 lbs? LOL oh my hes skinny boy

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  • There r other ways... Oh and break up with ur bf

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  • No no no no! When you become anorexic, it ruins your liver, origins in your body making it hard for you to breathe, you become tired, sleep all the time, (that means no sex because you wont have the energy! Or partying) after awhile your gonna regret it, but it will take you awhile to get back to healthy mode. Hun, your not overweight and if you want to be skinnnier, do a detox for a day or two, you'll loose 2-4 pounds. (search up lemon cayenne pepper detox drink) and do aerobics.and don't eat man made food!

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    • Aroura77

      Detoxes are scientific fallacy. You madam, would be hanged in 1650. SO many people gain back more weight than before after a detox, but the wight you lose on a short-term detox (ie in the first 3 days) is water. After that, your metabolism-reduced body will (according to the uni of Greenwich's sports science depart.) Lose around 50g of fat per day. This is not much at all (it is possible to consume this in one huge meal in just pure fat)
      The weight you very easily put back on is fat. So it is very easy just to gain it all back +.
      The only realistic way to keep weight off long term is to eat lots of healthy foods regularly and exercise.

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  • firefly88

    145 lbs is not healthy. That's fat. Your bf Is right. Just my honest opinion. Dint flame me

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