Is it normal and what is it about wearing lingerie or
I was 13 the first time the thought crossed my mind, and I was actually curious about how it would feel to put on and wear a bra. (Im male). Many times over the years I remember my attitude, my whole demeaner would fluxuate from one extreme to another. As the years went on I recall many bouts of depression, I never knew why I was so extreme in my emotional state. It was about age 28 for me that I realized I, like so many millions of other people in the world, I had no idea why I felt the way I did about things, and no idea how to work thru it. In the mid 1970's there was no way I would tell or try to talk to someone about the realization that I just love the whole feeling of wearing womens attire. My exwife (God Bless you Cindy) talked to me one day I was always having issues with self acceptance. I was finally able to. For years I had no idea how to accept myself as a male crossdresser, and to realize I was no different that so many others. I lived with feelings of guilt, shame, and embarrassment being walked in on when I was dressed in a nightgown and stuff that was obvious it was not meant for men to wear. BUT thru it all, like right now, I can be all stressed about crap, but if I can get something on, a bra or something silky soft, I can feel so much better almost right away. Is that normal for ladies as well?