Is it normal anal sex= huge turn off for girl?

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As a girl...when a guy asks me for anal sex, it turns me off so much, and even pisses me off a little. It almost makes me feel as if the fact they're having sex in my vagina isn't enough, and they're asking me to feel pain just so they can have more pleasure. I know some women enjoy it, but it's just hard for me to understand why any woman would want a penis in there, and why any guy would want to put his penis in there! ..especially when there's a perfectly good vagina you could put it in like you're supposed to. If you really wanted to have anal so bad, then you could go find a gay man and do it. Granted I've never tried it, but is it normal to feel this way?

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    actually, LOTS of women enjoy it. And you also have a perfectly good asshole to stuff with a dick.

    There are many reasons for anal, a lot of them are pretty primal, and I really enjoy to unleash the animal within.

    The funny thing is -my ex's got me into anal. (i'm a guy.)

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      I can understand not wanting to do it, but to take it so personally and think that the guy wants to make her suffer is really exacerbating the issue.

      Then again, if she's never tried it it's no wonder she can't conceive how it's pleasant. It is a little weird at first, just gotta relaaaaxxx :P

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  • nobodyspecial
    11 years ago

    Said this before, why would anyone want to put their dick in shit when the best thing on earth is an inch away

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    Thanks for sharing.

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  • Gelmurag
    11 years ago

    Like Maid said, if it is done correctly, there shouldnt be any pain involved. There should also be no "material" up there either if your doing it correctly.

    Anal feels incredible, not just for gay men. There are many nerve clusters in there that can only be reached by a penis or toy. Of the 40 or so women I know in real life, all of them have told me they love anal. Sometimes its the feeling of "having to go" but knowing that its safe to relax because the item inside isn't dirty. (There are lubes that can help with that feeling also, including an entirely different set of orgasms not related to any other body part. Yes, it is possible to have an anal orgasm. analgasm.) And for some women it can even trigger a vaginal orgasm because some women can feel the item through their butt in their vagina.

    Why would a guy want it? Lots of reasons here also. Perhaps its the act of doing it. Perhaps its knowing it makes her feel good in a different way. Maybe she was on her period. Maybe it was because he wanted a tighter hole, because although it can stretch, it never stays stretched like the vagina.

    Rules for being safe:

    Relax
    Enema
    Lube
    Relax
    Lube
    Deep Breathing
    Relax
    More lube

    And most importantly, take time. Anal isn't a speed race, its slow and steady.

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  • Maid_in_Pink
    11 years ago

    Perfectly normal to NOT want to have Anal sex, plenty of people don't.

    I did just want to note something...If it's done right, it shouldn't hurt, at all. It takes a slow caring partner to make sure everything goes smooth and stays lubricated. As someone that has had amazing pain free anal sex I can testify to this.

    As to your questions of why they would want to have Anal instead of Vaginal, there are lots, many of which revolve around the idea of...oh what's a good funny way to put it...you're not supposed to go in through the out door. fair enough?

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  • AssBurgers
    11 years ago

    Don't knock it till you've tried it.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    If you don't like it, then you don't have to do it. But some people out there enjoy it, don't feel insulted, just explain to the guy that you don't want it and move on.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    If porn has taught me nothing else, and it hasn't, it is that girls love anal sex and cum on their face.

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    • Captain_Kegstand
      11 years ago

      Porn isn't real? I thought it was real sex and a camera crew happened to be there!

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      • Justsomejerk
        11 years ago

        Don't worry, it may not be real, but it is a thing.

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        • Captain_Kegstand
          11 years ago

          As long as I can pretend it is real then were good lolz.

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  • nightmare28
    11 years ago

    If you don't like it, don't do it. In life you'll never know unless you ask. You're lucky they ask instead of just "accidentally" slip it in, aka give you "the shocker".

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