Is it normal: akwardness

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Around the guy I like I'm confident. I'm not afraid to hug him or flirt with him or anything. I just daydream about us being a couple and how it would be perfect. But once we do start going out I don't feel right about it. I'm not sure if it's because I'm afraid of rejection, if I just have trust issues(due to my previous bc cheating on me), or if I take everything for granted. Advice please?

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    Maybe all the daydreaming sets up unrealistic expectations that no one can live up to? Try to stop with the day dreaming and then see if you like a guy or not based on who he really is not on fantasies in your head.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Sometimes the real thing is not as good as the fantasy. Try to accept them as they are and avoid obsessing over a future with them before there actually is one.

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    • ravensuichiro
      13 years ago

      i agree..sometimes we get carried away by our imaginations..live with the real thing..
      and btw if you find yourself not really liking this guy then tell him..

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