Is it normal after sex to make a mess?

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So, basically, I'm on the pill, therefore me and my boyfriend don't use condoms. So when he's ejaculated inside, I have to have something (e.g toilet paper, towel) ready to catch the cum from my vagina, and then I run to the toilet holding the tissue so it doesn't leak out... As you can imagine it completely ruins the moment... You see in films where after sex they just cuddle and they don't go running to the loo with a big yucky mess leaking... I just wondered if there's any solution (apart from using a condom or pulling out) and is it normal? (lol yes i created some gay answers idc what you say just be honest)

It's normal and there's no solution 14
nope, use a condom or pull out 4
eww why would you let him cum on you? 1
I let my partner cum in me and i do something different... 10
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  • lawabidingcitxen
    11 years ago

    Just lay a towel down before hand and then snuggle away. Problem solved!

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    • frostedshreddies
      11 years ago

      :) thanks

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    "Big yucky mess leaking"... Next time I see a girl go to the bathroom after sex, I will be laughing and thinking about that exact phrase.

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    • frostedshreddies
      11 years ago

      lmfao, have fun with that.

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  • charli.m
    11 years ago

    I've seen towels specifically marketed as sex towels. You stick it under you and let it keep things from getting ick.

    I imagine a normal towel would so the same at a fraction of the cost.

    Or you could just fuck in the shower. That might be fun.

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    • frostedshreddies
      11 years ago

      yeah, maybe, thanks.

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  • smartpatrol11
    11 years ago

    Do you have a big sloppy pussy or what. It should begin to shrink back after he withdraws unless youve stretched the shit out of it. Do you ever queaf. Mo meed to run to the shitter straight away

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    • frostedshreddies
      11 years ago

      no, i don't have a big sloppy pussy, thanks for asking, it doesn't just pour out like a waterfall, lmao, but i just get a little afraid of any leaking...

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    i know way to many who have gotten pregnant on birth control, some multiple times. he should use a condom or at the bare minimum pull out and you can either suck it out of him or have him cum on you and then you can wipe it off and shower together.

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    • frostedshreddies
      11 years ago

      thanks for the advice, but i'm not one to worry

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    Hm, i hear ya. Anyway, what i'm doing when i'm at a guys place:
    I just don't care. If _HE_ runs to fetch me a towel or whatever, i use it. If he just rolls over, satisfied with the world and himself, i'll stay. HE just had a lot of fun, too, and it's HIS sperm leaking out of me. Never heard complaints, and if i did, i'd suggest them to wear a condom instead. More often than not, they'd not mind a little mess then, all of a sudden.

    If the deed occurs in MY place, however, i have special blankets. Like, overday blankets old people usually place over their bed so it looks nice. It's like, wether it's lube, sweat, sperm, oil, wax or just morning coffee, i don't care. After we are all done, I'll just take the bundle and throw it into the washing machine. I usually have 3 or so at home, they last a suprisingly long time considering what they go through, they are available with different surface texture, too.

    I'm also kind of a cuddler after sex, which is strange, since i usually have no feelings whatsoever for the guy, but right afterwards, i long for closeness, so i came up with that. I can't prevent making a mess when sperm leaks out of me, but i can change the environment in which this mess occurs :)
    (Technically i can prevent it, but i didn't like the paper-towel-routine with optional toilet run much, either...)

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    • frostedshreddies
      11 years ago

      great way to look at it, thanks

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    What do you mean? Swallow. Semen is very nutritious -vitamin C, lots of protein, enzymes.. and it'll make your guy happy!

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    • frostedshreddies
      11 years ago

      lmao, well yeah, happens sometimes but not always, it's only about 5 calories too, right? ;) haha!

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago

    Get some towels, keep tissue by the bed, and accept the fact that sex is a little messy at times. No, not messy, that makes is sound unpleasant. It's just sex, and sometimes you get it all over you.

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    • frostedshreddies
      11 years ago

      very true, thanks

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  • lc1988
    11 years ago

    The paper towel right away seems a bit extreme. I just walk to the toilet and clean up while he washes his penis in the sink then bam we're back in bed cuddling. You're being a bit over dramatic with the it ruins the moment or whatever. Sure as hell beats gushing over the sheets

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