Is it normal after 4 years?!

Ok my gf and I have been together more than 5 years. We are high school sweet hearts and we both lost our virginity to each other and back in the day used to get it on regularly. She now has lost her once baggin' body but shes not fat (just out of shape) and refuses to put out. Might I add that I do NOT pressure her to do anything. I cannot touch her in any way and she won't let me see her naked or anything. I ALWAYS tell her how beautiful she is and she really is the only girl I want to sleep with but it's been really hard to keep my hands completely off of her. is it normal that she has completely put an end to our sexual life?? Should I move on because I really feel like just her friend now and I want something more intimate?

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42% Normal
Based on 269 votes (112 yes)
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Comments ( 22 )
  • lovehate83

    If she is uncomfortable with her stomach tell your willing to do it doggy style
    And then as punisment for holding out for 4 years ram it in her ass

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  • Scrat

    Talk to her about her feelings and yours and find out what's wrong

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  • jpatt

    It is normal! Woman have different peaks in their sex life, which unfortunately, don't coinside with men. Although sex is an important part of a relationship, maybe she is at that drop age. It does pick up though! Try new things!!

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  • Raquelrockshard

    U should really move on.caus if she's cheting on u,which sounds like she is,then I'm sure there's tons of other sexy women out there.

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  • JuliusE

    NOT normal unless she's cheating. Move on.

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  • Well maybe she is insecure about her new body and feels lik u won't love her anymore since she was once so beautiful. Wat u need to do as th man is tell her that u love her so much and that she looks beautiful and kiss her with so much passion that she melts in your arms! Thn her reaction will determine wat happens next!

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  • Sounds like she's cheating on u

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  • szmagic

    Pull out your dick, then shell want some action

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  • ekk0316

    Ya it's normal that she wants to take a break. Girls don get as horny as often as guys do. And if you love her don't break up with her just cause of that!

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  • tyrustrojan

    No

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  • Kayli

    Definitely don't go to someone else if you are feeling like you need more. Maybe she knows she has put on weight, thus feeling uncomfortable with you/around you because she knows you probably recognized it too. Maybe make some fun out of a new diet/eating routine. Do it together! Go for walks after school or work and change your diets to healthy food!

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  • cassiewa

    Sometimes girls just rly don't wanna do it. Never forget: the girl is always in charge. And don't be an idiot and move on: relastionships should be alot more then sex

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  • kaylee_babyy_2012

    i bet shes cheating ! but us so comfortable with yu and yu haven't left yet , why not have the best of both worlds

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  • Ihave2try

    Not to sound negative, but I have a friend that is cheating on her husband and she won't have sex with him cuzz she's getting it somewhere else. She doesn't even want him to touch her.

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  • Thatfeeling

    Talk to her...about her feelings...

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  • fukerzworld

    Maybe she banging someone else? consider it?

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  • Lady.Pam

    She's probably just uncomfortable with her body.

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  • shikira

    My husband and I have been together for almost 4 years. Sex is very important in a relationship but it's not everything as I'm sure u kno. Most of the time we have sex all the time but sometimes we go a month or two without sex but we still cuddle up and love on each other. It don't happen alot but it ha happened a couple of times over the years. So if she really don't want u to touch and love on her at all I would say it's over but if she still likes cuddling up and lovin on each other my advise is all u can do is talk try to set down and watch a movie and cuddle up on the sofa

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  • mutantredhead

    It sounds like she is either bored or too comfortable. Maybe the two of you need a temporary separation to help sort out your feeling toward each other.

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  • whyhellothere

    You need to sit her down and tell her how you feel. Tell her she's beautiful and tell her that you are tired of her insecurities. And depending on how that goes, lol. Good luck.

    But sex is important so you can't ignore this for long.

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  • austindude69

    This isn't normal, sex is an important part of any healthy relationship. Have a serious talk with her and tell her if you don't get relationship counselling you are out.

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  • BenjaminT.

    Talk to her about ask her to work out with u at the gym sometime lol.

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