Is it normal - to have these desires?

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Years I have not shared, but recently, told my man about my fetish for/of nazis - mainly being dominated and tortured by.
Being I'm a native german, he said he was not surprised and has even tried learning german to be mor authentic in role-playing.
While I appreciate his willingness and interest - I am still troubled as to why I have this want. So is this normal? Especially interested in feedback from other native germans!

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Based on 332 votes (131 yes)
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  • Silivrin1
    11 years ago

    Not the most sound of fetishes, but mostly harmless. I assume that your partner is not going to full on torture you but do be wary about how masochistic you're being.

    As long as you don't start having urges to slaughter minorities, particularly jews, handicapped individuals, homosexuals and gypsies... Clearly it's the foreign nature and military harshness/cruelty imposed by such people that pleases you, and not the genocide which they helped to commit.

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    • unsicher
      11 years ago

      Thanks for your comment!
      I've complete trust of my partner, which I agree is very important.
      Being german has added to my guilt for such fantasies,yes. However does not mean I would have 'urges to slaughter minorities'!

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I too have a nazi fetish and it's not as uncommon as you may think. There are many people out there that share this fetish. It's fine as long as you don't agree with the things they did...

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    • unsicher
      11 years ago

      May I ask a few questions?
      How long have you had this fetish?
      Did you also experience guilt/shame? If so:
      What helped you move past these feelings?
      Has your partner been accepting of?

      Thanks for your time!

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  • NotStrangeBird
    11 years ago

    Ha, this reminds me of Cloris Leachman and Harvey Corman in the Mel Brooks movie "High Anxiety".

    I'd reccomend it to you, but of course Mel Brooks is Jewish, plus it's a comedy and laughing is forbidden (verboten) for anyone who has anything to do with anything German.

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    • unsicher
      11 years ago

      Typischer spinner

      *tapping forehead*

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      • NotStrangeBird
        11 years ago

        1. What is a spinner? Are you attempting to dismiss/mock my opinion?

        2. You put a post like that on a website like this and expect not to be made fun of? Seriously? You are the one who brought your heritage/nationality into this.

        3. I have a great deal of respect for folks who try to transcend the stereotypes that define who they are. As a German, your sense of humor is typically lacking, just as I predicted, then you go on about nazis? How boring and predictable. Let me guess, your occupation is BMW mechanic.

        4.Why are you coming here for validation? As long as you're not hurting anyone else with your fantasies, go live your life. Most fetishes/sexual fantasies are not considered normal by society, yet large groups of folks participate in these activities. Go do your thing!!!

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        • unsicher
          11 years ago

          I've posted here, not for validation, but an attempt to receive feedback to an issue that has troubled me and being the point in question pertains to nazis, how else would one properly pose without specifying ones concern/s?
          My mistake, so I apologize, as how could you understand something so complex?

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          • NotStrangeBird
            11 years ago

            Ahh, so you are trying to find like-minded nazi S&M fetishists to guide you in your quest for self-realization by posting on a website primarily populated by wise-asses (myself included admittedly), teens on summer vacation and weirdos?

            Your most sarcastic apology is accepted. In turn, please forgive my inability to realize the cavernous depths of your psyche and soul.

            Let me ask you this? You claim a German heritage, why nazis? Why not the Khimer Rouge, Mussolini fascists, or any of the other evil folks that have walked the face of the earth? If you ponder this, you may conclude that you are simpler than you claim to be. An everyday masochist using your own ethnicity to act out your fantasies. How boring and predictable.

            PS I still don't know what a spinner is!!!

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            • unsicher
              11 years ago

              Let me ask you this; who can control what, to put bluntly, 'turns their key'? If it were as easy a task, as you seem to believe, wouldn't everyone?

              As for the definition of spinner; I assumed you to have a knowledge of german, due to your use of 'verboten'.

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  • bleach_baby
    11 years ago

    It's to do with the taboo, which is even stronger in Germany than in other countries. It's pretty normal, although (hopefully) not common, and it doesn't mean you support the Nazis. Unless of course, you also support the Nazis.

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    • unsicher
      11 years ago

      My thanks for your comment. To answer, no, I do not support nazism.

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  • FruitcakeinaTiffanybox
    11 years ago

    I perticulary have a thing for them in uniform. I purposely watch German/Nazi type films so I can ogle them.
    I hate the violence though. Check out the German actor Thomas Kretschmann. He would probably turn you on with whatever fantasy you think about relating to Nazi stuff.

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  • lisaz
    11 years ago

    jeez ..back to is it normal..yeah it sounds like your basic want to be dominated used fantasy...i am turned on by the whole s&m thing,,, my husband puts a belt around my neck, gives me a few slaps, gives me a few belts with the belt on the ass ..everyone is turned on, im never really hurt . I would say cops, soldiers , rapists could substiute for the whole natzi thing in the fantasy ... its all about sex and fantasy..never reality..enjoy ! maybe its cause those natzis looked so darn scary and thats the turn on...maybe your honey would just live to act out his DOm side to his submissive litlle prisoner...give him permission...hes a guy ...dont be subtle..tell him it's ok. some guys dont have it in them, sadly, but some are just afraid to let out their inner DOm in case their girl gets all alarmed.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    just a different kind of BDSM

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  • vdubscorpio69
    11 years ago

    My friend really wants to meet you lol

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    • unsicher
      11 years ago

      Did your friend say why?

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  • BlueAlice
    11 years ago

    Maybe it's the fact that you happen to be German that it makes the Nazi fantasy so thrilling for you (Obviously, it's considered taboo).

    You're lucky to have a partner who's so willing, but I do hope that you two have a safe word for each other.

    I can see how some might consider this disturbing, but you two should be fine as long as both of you are able to consent, willing and able to communicate any potential issues that might arise.

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    • unsicher
      11 years ago

      Thank you for your comment.
      Yes, i am grateful to have a partner who is open to my umm :) and safe words are always used.

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      • BlueAlice
        11 years ago

        Well, then you're all set!

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  • Imsupernormal
    11 years ago

    You're probably an anti-Semite.

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    • unsicher
      11 years ago

      On what do you base your false assumption?

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