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is that weird? we’ve been broken up for like 4 years but last year we got together and hooked up but now we don’t talk at all... but like is that normal to just drive by his house? i don’t have feelings rly it’s just kinda therapeutic idk why lolol.... i have a bf rn and i know that’s bad but IDK
I would think you are trying to see if he has a gf, or any signs of moving on. For you to drive by would lead many to think you are NOT over him. There is still something you miss or would have wanted to do if given the chance. Or maybe the ex has bigger weewee than current. If you don't talk to him, if you ARE TRULY OVER HIM, go on with your life, stop doing thinks that might very well make you get sentimental. I used to listen to Van Halen's BALANCE cd. Every time I did, 2 songs on there for me all emotional and thinking back, nostalgic is the word I'm looking for. It made me think about an ex gf that lives in Las Vegas now. It took me a long time to be able to listen to it without getting all stupid and crying about her. I think you just need to make a positive attempt to avoid his street and stop "checking up on him" and stop wondering if he has moved on. At some point we all move on.
I wouldn't say driving past the house of your ex is normal, but it certainly is rather common. I think it's sort of brooding, obsessive and masochistic. Honestly, I would recommend not driving past your ex's house, because it's unhealthy.