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Even though she is the instigator and bullshit creator in my house?... She acts like she does nothing wrong here at all.. I was so peaceful until she moved in here now I have nothing but issues caused by her so why is she pretending to be a victim all of a sudden I sure as hell didn't ask her to move into my house.. But yet she won't move out either?
Let me take a dump and get back with u. It may be a powerdump which is faster ok?
This is sad, but reading this post makes me thank God that I'm single and living alone with my cat. I would, of course, like to add a dog to my life. It's not that I don't want a significant other per se but rather at this point in my life whatever desperation I once harbored towards romantic entanglements seems to have mostly drained away. It's better to be alone than be with the wrong person. Sadly I've also concluded through my life experiences that marriage is a package deal; along with one's beloved comes their family of origin and or any baggage from that family. So for now I'm content to work on myself and leave this business of coupling with another in the hands and at the mercy of God.
I don't know enough about the situation to even begin to try to form an opinion. I do wish you and your family well and hope the problem is resolved in a manner that is fair to everyone involved.
honestly when we dated-- his mom was barely in the picture..except for the daily phone calls which should have been a ("warning sign") right there that I tried telling myself he was just a "good son who was concerned since she is way over the hill in age half way into the grave actually" if I had known he was so "attached to her" even financially I would not have even gotten married I would have waited till she croaked before I even decided to marry him cause she is the reason I am so unhappy with my marriage now...
Kick her butt out. Let your hubby have no peace until she's gone?
Thx for letting me drop the kids off at the pool first OP:)
Oh trust me I do give him hell almost on a daily basis for being a mamas boy at age 51
How's that going to help? Give him some positive attention for a change. Then maybe he'll return the favor and put mom on the back burner and focus more on you. Honestly what incentive does he have right now to put you first if you're treating him like dog shit?
Be the change you want to see, as they say.
WOW your pretty smart...I did all that "nice bullshit" the first year we were married already..it only got mistaken "for a weakness" people can only allow themselves to get stepped on for so long before they snap....so NOPE NO MORE OF ME BEING NICE UNTIL HE KICKS THAT FUCKING FAT COW OUT OF MY HOUSE OR SHE CROAKS WHATEVER COMES FIRST...
To be honest with you I only opened this story because I thought it said MILF in the title. I chose to answer because I believe my advice could help. You yelled at me. I was not mean to you. You need to let go and realize change needs to begin with you.
Going by the way you act on this website I feel sorry for you and your family. You belittle and nag your husband. The behavior you have displayed and admitted to on this site is disgusting so maybe his mother has reason to despise you. And if his mother treats him better than you do....then WAKE UP...why would he choose you over her?
Apologize to his mother. Treat her like a human being.
Apologize to your husband for letting your anger take over your marriage. Then give him a blow job. That will get the ball rolling. Trust me.
ok so I am the "disgusting one" because you thought I said MILF????
as for YOUR ADVICE<---- I don't remember asking you for it...
I was mean to you...lmao..what a joke ...I didn't know YOU COULD HEAR ME YELL WHEN THESE WORDS ARE JUST CAPITALIZED...
as for treating my monster in law with respect ..well she lost that when she started disrespecting ME FIRST...I tried for one full year of being nice to her and she turned it all around on me and took advantage of my kindness for a weakness..im not a "sucker for anyone"...
and the only time I snap on my husband is when he allows (the cunt who gave birth to him) to disrespect me first while he just stands there and watches her do it..grow up dude your the one with the disgusting behavior not me...I am filled with rage is all so dont get it twisted because you know nothing about my life at all and all the hell I have lived through..